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Brizzledude   United Kingdom
Joined 12 years
For me, fat women are ridiculously sexy, I just love a big, soft body. But it’s not just that, it’s the mentality. Most women (and probably blokes) are so conditioned to want to be thin, and to see being overweight as some kind of moral failing.

A woman who doesn’t have that inbuilt sense of shame about being fat is, to me, ridiculously sexy. That “fuck it, I’m here to enjoy life” attitude, that kind of hedonism, makes me weak at the knees . I’m very slim, whatever I eat I never put on weight, my hedonism takes the form of booze (less so these days), weed (more so these days) and riding very powerful motorcycles as fast as I can.

We are here for a good time, not a long time.
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EIIe   United States
Joined 5 years
brizzledude:
For me, fat women are ridiculously sexy, I just love a big, soft body. But it’s not just that, it’s the mentality. Most women (and probably blokes) are so conditioned to want to be thin, and to see being overweight as some kind of moral failing.

A woman who doesn’t have that inbuilt sense of shame about being fat is, to me, ridiculously sexy. That “fuck it, I’m here to enjoy life” attitude, that kind of hedonism, makes me weak at the knees . I’m very slim, whatever I eat I never put on weight, my hedonism takes the form of booze (less so these days), weed (more so these days) and riding very powerful motorcycles as fast as I can.

We are here for a good time, not a long time.



I love everything about this answer.


I have always been a nonconformist. And a kinky pervert. I have been slim thicc most of my life but as I have gained more and more there really is something about rolls of fat and the softness and being squeezed and jiggled that really does it for me. And it feels very naughty to be fat and confident and happy when society tells me I shouldn’t be.

And I love yummy food. Like a lot!

I’m the biggest I have ever been and the only thing I am finding regretful about it is that it’s difficult to find clothes in the sexy styles that I like that fit me. Everything else is better tho!

I don’t have feelings one way or another about the way my partners looks tho. One of my partners is very tall and thin and I do like the dramatic contrast and the way our bodies fit together. And it makes me feel fatter if that makes sense.

My partners with bigger bodies I’ve never discussed this kink with but I do enjoy the way we squish and roll together and the way our fat creates momentum when we’re getting it on.
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Amazingem   Canada
Joined 3 years
I have always found fatter people more attractive than thinner, fitter people. Growing up I had a friend who was always a little chubby, and around the time we were 13 he started to get bigger, becoming what I would definitely call "fat." I developed such a crush on him! I remember looking through magazines with him, with images of traditionally attractive women in them, and he would remark on how sexy they were... But I only had eyes for him!

I don't know why, though. Certainly the large size, the softness, it all is part of it. The jiggle makes me weak in the knees every time I see it! smiley Certainly the feel of grasping fat flesh is such a pleasurable sensation. But why? I have no idea.
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MottiF   Israel
Joined 7 years
amazingem:
I have always found fatter people more attractive than thinner, fitter people. Growing up I had a friend who was always a little chubby, and around the time we were 13 he started to get bigger, becoming what I would definitely call "fat." I developed such a crush on him! I remember looking through magazines with him, with images of traditionally attractive women in them, and he would remark on how sexy they were... But I only had eyes for him!

I don't know why, though. Certainly the large size, the softness, it all is part of it. The jiggle makes me weak in the knees every time I see it! smiley Certainly the feel of grasping fat flesh is such a pleasurable sensation. But why? I have no idea.


I think it actually the size and the looks. Woman with larger body are prettier because of their size in my eyes. Also fatter men are much sexier. Fatness make you beautiful, more than just skin and bones. I love the perkier breast and the bigger bellies. But it's really hard to explain the reason that makes this attractive to us.
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LondonFA   United States
Joined 9 years
chowmein:
what do you like about it? for me it is the fact that it is viewed as something "bad" by society. the fact that it is a bit "forbidden" in society is attractive. so it's like a humiliation kind of thing, like it makes me feel bashful. it has a submissive feeling to it and a sneaky feeling. but also can feel strong and powerful and confident. i love fat dorky/nerdy people and also fat dominant tough kinda metalhead people who would bully and tease me hahaha. i could go on. it really is a lovely thing. food brings people together and in some cultures obesity is viewed as beautiful. for example indian belly dancing or something like that. i can't wait to fall in love and enjoy all things related to feeding and food with someone. travel the world and experience a vibrant life and also eat many different things with them. i would love to hear why others enjoy this type of thing as well. food is intimate to me, obesity is intimate and vulnerable. it is showing a softness. even if you're a tough guy who is big it still shows a certain softness that is so charming to me


I actually find the fact it's taboo a turn off in many ways. It's odd but heaviness, softness, roundness, the blissful joy in seen when my wife is eating, these are the things I find attractive. But yet there is still the fact that it's not common nor accepted that irks me. Most of my coworkers have very fit, smaller partners with a lot.of.tone who don't make a low moan when taking a bite of good food.

So the indulgence and the "fatness"
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LondonFA   United States
Joined 9 years
chowmein:
what do you like about it? for me it is the fact that it is viewed as something "bad" by society. the fact that it is a bit "forbidden" in society is attractive. so it's like a humiliation kind of thing, like it makes me feel bashful. it has a submissive feeling to it and a sneaky feeling. but also can feel strong and powerful and confident. i love fat dorky/nerdy people and also fat dominant tough kinda metalhead people who would bully and tease me hahaha. i could go on. it really is a lovely thing. food brings people together and in some cultures obesity is viewed as beautiful. for example indian belly dancing or something like that. i can't wait to fall in love and enjoy all things related to feeding and food with someone. travel the world and experience a vibrant life and also eat many different things with them. i would love to hear why others enjoy this type of thing as well. food is intimate to me, obesity is intimate and vulnerable. it is showing a softness. even if you're a tough guy who is big it still shows a certain softness that is so charming to me


I actually find the fact it's taboo a turn off in many ways. It's odd but heaviness, softness, roundness, the blissful joy in seen when my wife is eating, these are the things I find attractive. But yet there is still the fact that it's not common nor accepted that irks me. Most of my coworkers have very fit, smaller partners with a lot.of.tone who don't make a low moan when taking a bite of good food.

So the indulgence and the "fatness"
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HappyBigBelly   United States
Joined 11 years
It’s been an attraction for me dating back to near-infancy, according to some stories I’ve been told. When I was less than a year old, I was slapped by an aunt for either grabbing or pinching her fat arm too hard. My mom was none too pleased she slapped me, so a slap fight ensued :-) My uncle divorced that woman not long afterward for other reasons, but it was an early clue of what I’d be into as an adult :-) Today, my other half is a proudly fat beauty who fills out her frame nicely :-)
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FAMiller56   United Kingdom
Joined 14 years
I find the obese female form infinitely more attractive than the slim female form. If curves are the definition of the female figure then a woman with more, bigger curves defines what a woman should look like. I believe fatter women appear more feminine. I love everything about an obese woman from the obvious boobs, belly and bum to cute double chins, sexy rolls of back fat, huge pillowy arms, cute little rolls of fat on thighs, folds over wrists & ankles, dimples where knuckles & knees should protrude.
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MarshmallowMinotaur   United States
Joined 7 years
I really have no idea, but it is very attractive. I rarely think of fit or muscular men when I masturbate or look at porn. It used to be those guys but it gradually changed to being attracted to fat guys. I tried to get that athletic look, and was successful to a degree but now when I see those pictures I rather see myself fat. I’m not shy about saying I don’t think I’m bad looking and am happy and proud to be one of those fat guys.
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Imchet   United States
Joined 5 years
It's just so built into who I am it's hard to tease it out. It's almost like thin equals cold, threatening, aggressive, bleak, self-centered, arrogant, entitled, and condecending, while fat equals warm, gentle, bountiful, condiderate, modest, good natured, nurturing, and encouraging.

Everything else is just based on those most basic and deep seeded beliefs. I know those beliefs aren't generally true, and that they really aren't fair but somehow, that's how I came to be put together. The world does things to you that you can't always undo. Emotionally, I'd connect very well with any woman who had those qualities, but I honestly don't know if that would be enough to find her physically attractive.
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