I don’t know how fast you’re gaining, but maybe you could slow it down a bit. You’d be allowing yourself time to adjust to the idea of gaining while still actively gaining, just slowly. Perhaps it would be reassuring to feel that if you decide to stop, your weight will have only been increasing slowly & you won’t be dramatically heavier, so it’ll be easier to get back to YOUR ideal size. Even if you don’t want to, it could be helpful just to have that thought tucked away at the back of your mind.
A corset & slow gaining might be enough to get you comfortable with your changing body, but please don’t sacrifice your comfort & confidence if it doesn’t. If your boyfriend is interested in aspects of the fetish aside from gaining, maybe try things like padding and having the occasional day where you pig out & get bloated for him. Maybe mix that with a slow (and potentially small) gain. IF gaining ends up not making you happy (it might!) you’ll need to reach a compromise. If it means he watches a lil feedee porn occasionally, so be it - as long as he priorities the sex & kink of your relationship, unlike before. Incorporate some roleplay & fantasy stuff maybe. Sometimes we say things during sex that we wouldn’t necessarily want to do outside of the bedroom.
Good luck with whatever you end up choosing! Hope you’re able to reach a solution that makes both of you happy.
A corset & slow gaining might be enough to get you comfortable with your changing body, but please don’t sacrifice your comfort & confidence if it doesn’t. If your boyfriend is interested in aspects of the fetish aside from gaining, maybe try things like padding and having the occasional day where you pig out & get bloated for him. Maybe mix that with a slow (and potentially small) gain. IF gaining ends up not making you happy (it might!) you’ll need to reach a compromise. If it means he watches a lil feedee porn occasionally, so be it - as long as he priorities the sex & kink of your relationship, unlike before. Incorporate some roleplay & fantasy stuff maybe. Sometimes we say things during sex that we wouldn’t necessarily want to do outside of the bedroom.
Good luck with whatever you end up choosing! Hope you’re able to reach a solution that makes both of you happy.
3 years