Fat experiences

So recently I was ridiculed and made fun of for wanting a more "wholesome" feederism experience/relationship.

I've met and have many meaningful conversations with feedees and feeders, and much more with those who really just want the horni jail, and I'm defnitively not following them.

I'm aware it is a kink and a sexual fetish but it really doesn't have to be all horny, right? Sometimes you just want to appretiate and being appretiated, even if it stops at cuddles.

After all sexual appetite is actually something I don't have, if you can believe that. My love for this comes from my heart rather than the uh, nether regions.

In my experiences, pictures were always fully dressed with just the belly peeking out, and while I never saw or exhanged vids, one of the most comfy things I had was listening to our stomachs digesting. I dont know why I found that comforting but I did.

It does not have to be all about sex, feederism is much more than that, and I hope that you'll find a relationship that has deeper roots one day !

So you're kind of asexual?
For me feederism is really sexual, which does not mean that I do a lot of sex but I'm horny everytime I see a handsome fatty or read/watch feederism content.

I guess it's different for you, no problem. Hope you will find someone like you.

eh.... the "convo starter" never said anything about feeling sexual things towards other things. So if we wanna speak by terms, asexual on this matter but who knows (and not asking) how does the forum starter feel about other things..

That's why I'm asking... I'm not sure I understand how asexuality works. If he doesn't feel any sexual desire for men nor women, maybe he's asexual?

Alright, let me answer all of you at once.

For starters, thank you for your support.

As for if I'm asexual or not, I'm not sure. I certainly don't feel the desire to go to bed with anyone, even if they are my type (as I said, I would rather it stopped at cuddles)

But still, I have this kink that's considered sexual and I admit, I do feel attracted to fat bodies and overeating, so that's where I'm still confused as to what exactly I am.

The closest thing I can think of is being demisexual or queer. As I have not yet found my match I cannot confirm the first one anyway.

There are sexual aspects for me, but my favourite parts are actually the “PG” parts you mentioned, plus a bit of the more sensual or teasing stuff. So more sexual than you’re describing, but the SUPER sexual stuff just isn’t my main pull towards this kink. I enjoy some of it, but I probably wouldn’t be here if not for all the stuff that comes before the extremely sexual parts. I only began to enjoy those in the first place because I was into the less sexual aspects.

I’m sure people experience this kink in all sorts of ways, some less sex focused than others, and there must be (other?) asexual people in this community. You can be attracted to fat people without it being contradictory to your sexual desires too. Just have fun! I guess it must be a little weird feeling the way you do in a space that’s quite sexual, but embrace the parts you do like and I’m sure you’ll find other people with a similar view to yours.

Yeah that's exactly it. I have found some chill and cool people to hang out with every now and then, but it' harsh to filter out all the hornys and bonk them proprely.

Asexuality is a broad spectrum. As far as I can tell, it’s not that you never feel sexual feelings necessarily (it definitely can be that), but about feeling sexual attraction in a broad sense. Ie, seeing someone and being attracted to them sexually. Personally I’m demisexual which falls under the asexual side of the spectrum, but I still identify as ace because I don’t organism during sex and never have. I enjoy sex because it’s emotionally intimidate. I like the closeness. Same with this fetish, it’s the closest I get to sexual feelings for freaking sure, but I like the PG stuff too. That’s the allure for me, too much overt sex stuff, seeing genitalia etc will actively turn me off? Yeah asexuality is weird and maybe these terms aren’t 100% accurate but that’s what I’ve learned so far

The few sex experiences I had were neither intimate nor satisfying. Like I don't remember feeling anything close to pleasure during the whole thing. Couldn't even tell when it was over, either.
So for the longest time I wondered if I was broken in some way but then I discovered the asexuality spectrum and realized that if there are more like me, then it has to be fine. Right?