FatLover91:
Has anyone heard of HAES? (Healthy At Every Size).
First time hearing this.
Do you believe you can be healthy no matter how big you are? Can someone at 900 pounds be healthy? I believe so but I’m curious what your thoughts are.
John Smith:
Reality checks doesn't care about our dubious beliefs. I am a feeder, but at least I am not wearing rose coloured glasses: extreme superobesity bears its deadly consequences. Near-immobility, lymphatic swelling of the limbs, edema, poor hygiene, body oxygenation issues, and the list goes on and on.
Every extreme feedee as well as their feeders ought to be aware of the setbacks and downsides of indulging this far, not denying the truth. If they want to fatten up to the extreme, they're free to do so: but they have to perform this responsibly.
The escapist mentalities of some people over here are reaching anti-adulting levels of absurdity...
Totally agree. Obviously, everybody is different genetically and some will cope better than others. Not every fat person will get diabetes, but it is a factor. Not every fat person will develop knee joint issues, but it is a factor. Age needs to be thrown in too:the older you get, the more problems you are likely to have and weight exacerbates things.
Fat does not equal unhealthy, but neither does it equal healthy and obesity is a risk factor for many issues and illnesses.
So why have I made myself obese intentionally and why have I continued to try and gain when I have multiple obesity related health issues now. Because I love being fat and I went into this, having made a calculated decision. We all die one day and a lot will be determined by our genes. We will all die of something. We all hope it won't happen, but it will. We all hope that it will be quick and painless when it does happen, whether we are fat or thin. We all make choices:enjoy things that we enjoy and might be bad for us in the long run and take the risk or do everything we can to try and maximise the length of our lives. It's a personal thing and I have total respect for anyone who wants to try and live as long as possible. But that's not my choice. I accept that I might die as early as my 60s,but I have chosen to enjoy my passions and fetish es and accept that.
Anyway, as I said, obesity is not healthy generally, but that doesn't mean the same to everybody and doesn't mean you shouldn't be fat