Fat experiences

If she is a" real" long time friend I think she would understand.
If not then she isn't really a friend that will accept you for being you.
I lost a few friends over my weight mostly guy friends tho'.
I have some women friends that constantly talk about being fat and it always feels weird because I am the fat one and they are not fat at all.
I would send the email and just be done with it.
You said your piece and she knows how you feel. Keeping things all bottled up and stressing over it is just not worth it.

I’d send it. True friends accept one another regardless of their weight. A good bit of mine and my wife’s friends aren’t overweight, whereas the rest of them are. So it’s an even split :-)