Extreme obesity

You are wondering how everyone views your situation, and I will gladly tell you at least what I feel and think when I read your text. I am both impressed by her and afraid for you both, also sad and happy at the same time. Impressed because she has the will to go through suffering and risks her life to experience the extremes of her fetish, which is… kinda Übermensch-in-the-Nietzsche-way-like? She doesn’t sound like an unwilling participant, from what you wrote. She is courageous, though self-destructive, and the immobility fetish is a fascinating one too. I am afraid for you both - for her, because she might realize that she likes a mobile life more than she thinks now and because she basically risks it. For you, because you might go through a time of loss, mostly, and through a lot of hardship. I am happy for you both because you did find your ideal match, in a way. And sad because, well, her health will deteriorate even more when immobile.

I would not want to go through what you will go through, to be honest, as being a full-time caregiver is an exhausting job and I am more the type who would (if I was more of a feeder) want to take my still mobile BHM or BBW lover to an abundant picnic in the sun. Wouldn’t you two miss things like that?

You've asked for our views. My first thought is if everyone is on board, rock on, have fun.

My second thought is, "Man, there's a lot to consider going into that". Like, in being a full-time caregiver--what happens if you become unable to care for her? Like an accident, or just aging yourself. If you've got the money or support network to care for you both in such a case, awesome, but personally, I'd be anxious about that.

My third thought is wondering what you feel guilty about, if it's what she wants as well. Personally, I could imagine feeling present guilt over the possibility of future regret, but I'm not you, so I don't know what you're experiencing.

My wife is now totally immobile and I care for her every day she started to be come immobile due to health problems and having to give up work it can been hard a specialty as I am fat but I do work I always wanted to be immobile myself but can’t as there would be no one to care for the both of us it’s just me and her I have to stay as healthy as I can and there have been times where even getting a cold can be scary as if I am ill I don’t get paid at work but I would not change a thing she is so happy being immobile and it her happiness I care about the most what really does help is we started out as just a pair of lesbian slobs and with her being immobile now and me working coming home and not having to worry about cleaning up to much makes looking after her easer the biggest thing I would say to anyone wanting to life like this is money when we was both working it still did not have much money but we did ok now with just me working it is and can be hard so I would really consider that first

I am pleased you are financially stable.that will definitely remove that worry work and taking care of her is hard but some how we mate it work thank you we are happy and it’s what she needed and wanted so we when for it money hard but it’s the way she need so we just did it the biggest help was she wanted us to start off as fat slobs and as gross as it may sound to some people it’s been a real life saver to us it really helps with the working and care and would say if you partner wants to be immobile and you are happy to care for her go for it