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Lol... I have a fat partner in real life and still come here to masturbate (and interact with like-minded people).
And I see lots of women engaged with fat men IRL. Some are too afraid of "what people may think", that's true, but not all... Just like men who don't admit they like fat women. It's the same.
Can't see your point there. It sounds like an Incel speech ^^

What's wrong with masturbation? Or having a partner that might not fulfill your physical kinks but are otherwise fulfilling? What is wrong with coming to a fetish site to enjoy the fetish? Or anything else that people decide to do on here or IRL. Sorry the FFAs on here aren't fulfilling your "standard."

People come as they are. Maybe meet them there?

Maybe the only correlation in this equation is you?

Bro, what? I'm a woman who likes fat guys. If people who knew me irl knew I had this kink, they wouldn't be shocked. Most of the guys I go for are chubby or fat. Not only that, but I haven't asked anyone for a dime. Heck, I even turned down one guys offer to pay me.

And I'm not special about this. I have spoken to several other women on this site who are the same way.

Just because you were too toxic for the decent women on this site doesn't mean we're the problem.

Did you have a bad experience on here or other fetish sites that made you feel that way?
Its not good to generalize any group of people that way.
I dated fat guys in high school and college.
When it came to sex they were awesome.
I married a guy that was chubby then he got into body building and his sex drive was non existent once he became a gym rat.
My BF is a 350 lb guy that takes care of me quite well.

I have had guys offer me money to take porno pics and I have declined every offer for the last 12 years because I am not that kind of woman.

And? So? Not to be mean, but sexy stuff without attachment is kind of the point for most users here, right?

Yeah I thought that’s why we’re here sharing the way we do, man or woman. I hope so because that’s why I post the pictures I do! 😅🫠

I've always preferred bigger men. Not just here to masturbate but hey, it doesn't hurt. Haha.

It's unclear what it is you're actually looking for on this site. All you've done with this post is communicate that you think there's something wrong with women seeking a bit of sexual gratification in a low-risk environment.

If you're looking for a more intimate connection with someone, beyond sexual gratification, maybe try presenting the things which make you worth talking to on your profile.

If your issue is that people are unwilling to meet up in real life, for sexual gratification or otherwise... well, again, it's difficult to justify meeting someone in real life without understanding more about their personality.

That's just my opinion, though. I can't speak to what everyone else is looking for on this site. Likewise, you shouldn't assume what people want, nor judge them for spending their time the way they want as long as they're clearly communicative about those expectations.

It will always be a challenge to meet real authentic people in real life here as the door is open to those who only fantasize as well as those who have real life preferences. Unfortunately at the other forum, posts about mental health, bodily functions/thirst traps and more focus on lifestyles with little feedism involved tend to be the norm. With the economy not doing well stateside; ssbhm who eat and dress moderately well will be scam targets as the general perception offline is that food and clothing are expensive..so to have both is a sign of $.
The right 1 for you is out there, takes time. There is truth in "I Can Do Bad All By Myself", as settling can be far worse. No time like the present to invest in yourself, add to your life insurance policy (get a life insurance policy if 200-250lbs as some will deny offers when closer to 300), strengthen muscles, increase mobility and be able to live your best life as things fall into place.