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Wifestuffer   Japan
Joined 3 years
For us it's a practical thing, and genes. I have a weak heart and bad cholesterol, so I just wouldn't last long trying to get genuinely fat.

Whereas SHE has a body that seems like it was perfectly optimized to just swell up and store more and more blubber without threatening her health. Only her mobility, but she doesn't care about that.

She's more than a foot shorter than me, and almost 150 pounds heavier!
Also I need to be fitter than her because she's already so huge she has trouble getting out of bed, or sometimes getting unstuck from the bathtub!
3 years

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Justin89   United States
Joined 4 years
EIIe:
I never had a thing for fit guys before I got fat. I usually preferred thicker guys when I was fit/skinny because skinny/skinny doesn’t feel good together…

But now that I’m big and soft skinny/fit guys are fun to have such a contrast with.

There’s a few ways I find it hot- fit guys have that endurance to fuck which is absolutely fantastic.

Skinny guys I can overpower with my weight. I love having control.

There’s the contrast in sizes which the bigger I get the more I feel like I’m being mounted/rode and there’s something about that, it pushes so many buttons.

There’s also the complicated mental triggers happening in my brain too… when I was fit the fit guys I dated we’re obsessed with fitness and their partner (me) also being fit… so that’s still in my brain and I love the idea of a fit guys just so obsessed with my FAT body they can’t help themselves even though they also hate it.

It’s like a revenge/power kind of satisfaction. I play with a couple very fit dudes, they take a lot of pride in being fit af and even though we’ve been hooking up for years they’re just as obsessed as ever and I like to think part of that is because fat bodies are meant for fucking. It just feels good. (Not to mention I’m good at it.)

So yeah I don’t typically instigate with fit dudes, that vibe just typically isn’t for me but fit dudes into fat chicks is a whole other vibe I am into!


Thank you so much for posting this! 😊. As a fit guy this is the closest I’ve seen someone describe “on paper” what I am into and the sort of mental mechanisms behind the “why” it’s attractive (in-reverse of course, as I’m saying this from the “fit guy” perspective in this description 😊)

What’s funny for me that takes this all to an “extra” level for me personally is my line of work…as a personal trainer IRL I do my job 100% professionally and have helped so many girls lose weight that wanted to for their personal goals…

…but it also constantly puts me in a position to have so many fantasies wrapped around being a fit trainer who secretly (at least from a professional standpoint) digs big girls and the idea of girls doing the opposite and gaining weight.

Also, spending all this time on being fit just to be overpowered by a fat girl who overpowers me as a literal result of them doing the opposite of me? Definitely a hot concept…overpowering their “trainer”? Even more so…🥵

Annnndd the whole being into fitness and still unable to deny my attraction to the opposite…that whole vibe is comically and frustratingly hot to have playing on my mind both in and out of work 😊.
3 years

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Makeme300   United Kingdom
Joined 3 years
This feed drives me wild. I love the way both of you are expressing yourselves. One of my favourite fantasies is sitting on top of a hot fit guy with firm and defined toned abs, slapping my heavy hanging belly against those muscles whilst my fat soft juicy lips get wetter and wetter. Being a single workaholic means fantasies is all I have for now, and food🥵🥵🥵
EIIe:
I never had a thing for fit guys before I got fat. I usually preferred thicker guys when I was fit/skinny because skinny/skinny doesn’t feel good together…

But now that I’m big and soft skinny/fit guys are fun to have such a contrast with.

There’s a few ways I find it hot- fit guys have that endurance to fuck which is absolutely fantastic.

Skinny guys I can overpower with my weight. I love having control.

There’s the contrast in sizes which the bigger I get the more I feel like I’m being mounted/rode and there’s something about that, it pushes so many buttons.

There’s also the complicated mental triggers happening in my brain too… when I was fit the fit guys I dated we’re obsessed with fitness and their partner (me) also being fit… so that’s still in my brain and I love the idea of a fit guys just so obsessed with my FAT body they can’t help themselves even though they also hate it.

It’s like a revenge/power kind of satisfaction. I play with a couple very fit dudes, they take a lot of pride in being fit af and even though we’ve been hooking up for years they’re just as obsessed as ever and I like to think part of that is because fat bodies are meant for fucking. It just feels good. (Not to mention I’m good at it.)

So yeah I don’t typically instigate with fit dudes, that vibe just typically isn’t for me but fit dudes into fat chicks is a whole other vibe I am into!

Justin89:
Thank you so much for posting this! 😊. As a fit guy this is the closest I’ve seen someone describe “on paper” what I am into and the sort of mental mechanisms behind the “why” it’s attractive (in-reverse of course, as I’m saying this from the “fit guy” perspective in this description 😊)

What’s funny for me that takes this all to an “extra” level for me personally is my line of work…as a personal trainer IRL I do my job 100% professionally and have helped so many girls lose weight that wanted to for their personal goals…

…but it also constantly puts me in a position to have so many fantasies wrapped around being a fit trainer who secretly (at least from a professional standpoint) digs big girls and the idea of girls doing the opposite and gaining weight.

Also, spending all this time on being fit just to be overpowered by a fat girl who overpowers me as a literal result of them doing the opposite of me? Definitely a hot concept…overpowering their “trainer”? Even more so…🥵

Annnndd the whole being into fitness and still unable to deny my attraction to the opposite…that whole vibe is comically and frustratingly hot to have playing on my mind both in and out of work 😊.
3 years

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FatAdmirerLove82   United States
Joined 7 years
As a guy more on the fitter side, I definitely have to agree the difference in size is so hot especially hugs. Damn hugging a bigger woman, or cuddling them with my hands on her belly or their back rolls.. Is just so mmm!.
Though I personally never enjoyed the extreme variants, but to each their own.

Though I did have this fantasy of mine, that would only really work with a woman who wants an actual romantic relationship. Since it would focus on trust and undying love for each other regardless of whether gains or losses actually happen. Someone close to my age of course.

Basically during the warmer months like say late spring to early fall, we would be workout buddies, eating moderately healthy, staying in shape through exercise, etc. Depending on the female's metabolism, to encourage weight loss.

Then for the period between Early fall to late spring *after the workout months* I would keep myself in moderate shape not extreme just enough to ease up, while for the lady...
We would work together to get her bigger, hopefully without breaking the bank of course. Consider it a way to make it challenging.
I'm already picturing the various ways... Weight gain shakes, cake shakes, big meals, stuffing full, small bites of snacks or sugary candy while full, big desserts before bed, keeping a full belly the entire day. Only times we'd ease up would be to allow her not to not struggle in the bathroom, or if she gets sick, or if we are visiting family.
Sorta like a bear style of weight gain, gorging for winter.
The reason this is my fantasy is not just because I love bigger women, I also love to see them jiggle especially when working out.
Now add in a woman wearing the same clothes during the gaining months so we can see and feel them grow tighter and tighter would be heaven. Cleaned when needed of course.
3 years

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FatAdmirerLove82   United States
Joined 7 years

EIIe:
I’m curious how many years/seasons you’d try to keep that up!

Would you keep repeating the cycle no matter how much she gained or would you prefer to find a balance?

Well I would probably try to keep it up for as long as we could, since finances could be a problem. That and if the person I end up with wanted to have kids, since this is more of a pre kid thing. Now I would love to repeat the cycle just as long as they don't reach a certain size.
3 years