Submission and domination

As a domme, I find this question truly distressing. Why are you asking which one is more effective?

I'm not knocking these two as a form of play between consenting parties. But the fact that you are asking which is a more effective way to fatten someone up gives me great pause.

If you are sexually aroused by this, more power to you. However, you need to word this better. There are some very predatory people here - both users and guests - that will try to use this to abuse their partners.

What do you mean by effective? Effective suggest a goal. What are you hoping to achieve?

Okay. So what you really mean to say is "I have this fantasty of being blackmailed or hypnotized to fatten up past the point of no return. I want to make this reality."

For ethical reasons, I am not going to answer that question. I will it depends on the person. Best to have that conversation with your feeder.

Has this particular user deleted his/her account? Was it a "I sign up, ask things so that I hopefully get answers I can f*p to and then shamefully delete my account" person?

A rhetorical question.

As a general rule of thumb, I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, but I am not shocked by this turn of events.

We were overdue for this kind of user to swing by.

I like hypnosis a lot, but I find it hard to believe that it would even be possible in the real world to hypnotize someone to gain weight against their will. Obviously if you COULD do that then it would be unethical, but in my opinion that’s like arguing over whether it’s ethical to cast a magic spell on someone to force them to gain weight. You can’t do it either way so I’m not worried.

Being able to go into trance is a skill that takes time to master and not something that just magically happens like in a cartoon. Even then, I’ve found that hypnosis only really works for me if I put in active effort to help it work outside of trance. I have listened to a lot of it and even made custom files but if I am not actively trying hard to gain I still don’t, even if I am listening to the hypnosis. It is just a placebo effect, basically, and if you’re into it it can be a sexy placebo effect which is more effective. It can help with motivation which is huge but that only works if you want it. Also, the recordings where you can’t tell what the person is saying or it’s just noises don’t really do anything, nor does it really work if you’re unconscious, so if you wanted to hypnotize someone you’d have to use your words while they were awake… it would be pretty damn obvious you were trying to hypnotize them then.

Blackmail is super unethical unless it’s consensual and there’s a safe word. I don’t see what could be hot about it, if anything it would stress me out and kill my appetite, but when it’s fully consensual and safe I’m glad other people can have fun with it.

I once met someone online who did the blackmail thing. He sent pictures (not nudes) that he didn't want made public on social media. Flaunting belly, stuffing his face kind of stuff. If he didn't gain a specific amount by a chosen date, the pics would be posted. He absolutely LOVED it. As a sub, he enjoyed that "almost harmless" threat to push him to gain. He took pics of the scale for proof, and did indeed reach the goal. It was 100% consensual. Not my thing, but it's one ethical way to make it work.

As for hypnosis, I've thought about it a lot. All body modifications should be consensual, so here's how I imagine it playing out. I would go to the hypnotist with a script. I would outline exactly how I would like to be affected while under. Sometimes I imagine it's a specific weight goal, or an insatiable appetite, or sexual pleasure while eating, etc. At the end I would add that I am free to stop at any time, and/or when I am satisfied. I would want the hypnosis filmed, so I could watch it right after to be sure I'm happy with the session. There would also be the understanding that I could go back to end or change any of my self-imposed instructions.

I've never been put under before so I'm not speaking from any kind of experience. But it’s fun to think about which instructions I would give myself. 🐖😲🍆🤣

Oh, hypnosis is very real. It can't create physical changes by just listening, but you bet there are mental changes happening when you listen...

Haha I'd suggest by trying out my YouTube to start

I know it sounds like me just trying to get more listeners, but I'd say my results speak for themselves.

I do paid content and live sessions too, but I don't mean to cruise for that.