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Daredevil   United States
Joined 16 years
So after years of being in the closet and basically giving up hope of enjoying this fetish I’m finally at a turning point. I spent the nine months committing myself to fitness and went from 215 to 190.

However my girlfriend of a year confessed to me recently that she doesn’t enjoy my thin body and prefers larger men. Going as far as to say she would like to see me gain at least 100 lbs and hates the idea of me losing any more weight. She has emphasized that she loved me in spite of my body but would like to see me bigger.

I’ve spent years lusting at the idea of getting fat and dreaming about stuffing myself up to 500 plus pounds. But I’ve never acted on it for a number of reasons. Now the opportunity is finally here and it’s dumbfounding to me. I’ve never shared my fetish with her or any one else and frankly don’t even know where to begin. Do I open up about my fetish and my general apprehensions around gaining? Or do I broach it more cautiously?
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Animus   United States
Joined 3 years
It sounds like everything you had wanted to get out of this lifestyle could come to you. How bad do you really want it? Is it just a fantasy for you or is it something you could genuinely see yourself doing given that your partner is somewhat into the idea?

I would sit down with her and tell her your feelings and about this lifestyle. She may want to do more research into to support you. You will for sure feel less conflicted when you share this with her. Set some ground rules if everything goes well that if you aren’t feeling comfortable gaining, you need to stop.
1 year

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Daredevil   United States
Joined 16 years
Animus:
It sounds like everything you had wanted to get out of this lifestyle could come to you. How bad do you really want it? Is it just a fantasy for you or is it something you could genuinely see yourself doing given that your partner is somewhat into the idea?

I would sit down with her and tell her your feelings and about this lifestyle. She may want to do more research into to support you. You will for sure feel less conflicted when you share this with her. Set some ground rules if everything goes well that if you aren’t feeling comfortable gaining, you need to stop.




I have gained intentionally in the past and enjoyed it so it is something I could see myself doing, especially with my partner involved. I’ve always dreamed of this and have fantasized for so long I really feel like I’ll regret it if I don’t atleast try. I really want to experience being at least 400 lbs.

I’ve put it off in the past because of my health, I want to do this in the most healthy way I can. I don’t want to end up diabetic or very sick at a young age. This has been my major hang up.
1 year

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Animus   United States
Joined 3 years
Animus:
It sounds like everything you had wanted to get out of this lifestyle could come to you. How bad do you really want it? Is it just a fantasy for you or is it something you could genuinely see yourself doing given that your partner is somewhat into the idea?

I would sit down with her and tell her your feelings and about this lifestyle. She may want to do more research into to support you. You will for sure feel less conflicted when you share this with her. Set some ground rules if everything goes well that if you aren’t feeling comfortable gaining, you need to stop.

Daredevil:
I have gained intentionally in the past and enjoyed it so it is something I could see myself doing, especially with my partner involved. I’ve always dreamed of this and have fantasized for so long I really feel like I’ll regret it if I don’t atleast try. I really want to experience being at least 400 lbs.

I’ve put it off in the past because of my health, I want to do this in the most healthy way I can. I don’t want to end up diabetic or very sick at a young age. This has been my major hang up.


I think it will help immensely if you sit down with a nutritionist to help you gain healthier to avoid diabetes. It’s not all about just eating garbage and getting fat. Best of luck!
1 year