Fat experiences

John78:
Definitely interesting, have you had any specific examples recently?
Have you ever found the opposite, that people forget that you've gotten bigger and expect you to still be able to do things that are more difficult for you? E.g. I've found I can't maintain as fast a walking speed as before my gain and sometimes have to ask people to slow down

John78:
Haha, I definitely enjoyed the transition from always taking the stairs as a skinny and athletic type to always taking the lift, sometimes I catch myself heading for the stairs and have to remind myself. Even just between single floors just to minimise the calories I burn

I don't think I'm big enough yet for people to start making considerations but I can't wait until they do tbh

Did you mind sitting out? I have to say it's one of my tamer fantasies and I'd have loved it secretly.

John78:
Haha, I definitely enjoyed the transition from always taking the stairs as a skinny and athletic type to always taking the lift, sometimes I catch myself heading for the stairs and have to remind myself. Even just between single floors just to minimise the calories I burn

I don't think I'm big enough yet for people to start making considerations but I can't wait until they do tbh

Did you mind sitting out? I have to say it's one of my tamer fantasies and I'd have loved it secretly.

Captain Cake:
Oh yeah when you actually WANT to gain, you end up making those kind of considerations for yourself much earlier on to make sure you can store up all of that energy rather than spend it! But sometimes even I forget I can't do something, or underestimate it. Especially when it comes to incline. A small incline up a tiny hill can look absolutely fine to me, but then I get to the top and my legs are killing me!

Oh and don't get me wrong, I absolutely love not being able to join in with those things. Each time I realise I can't do a certain thing anymore it's like a buzz of joy checking it off the list of "things I'll never be thin enough to do again" haha. Plus it's fun seeing people's reactions when they're doing something physical and I'm too fat to do it, so I'm just sitting, and usually eating something which is just making the "problem" worse in their eyes ha!

John78:
Haha, I definitely enjoyed the transition from always taking the stairs as a skinny and athletic type to always taking the lift, sometimes I catch myself heading for the stairs and have to remind myself. Even just between single floors just to minimise the calories I burn

I don't think I'm big enough yet for people to start making considerations but I can't wait until they do tbh

Did you mind sitting out? I have to say it's one of my tamer fantasies and I'd have loved it secretly.

Captain Cake:
Oh yeah when you actually WANT to gain, you end up making those kind of considerations for yourself much earlier on to make sure you can store up all of that energy rather than spend it! But sometimes even I forget I can't do something, or underestimate it. Especially when it comes to incline. A small incline up a tiny hill can look absolutely fine to me, but then I get to the top and my legs are killing me!

Oh and don't get me wrong, I absolutely love not being able to join in with those things. Each time I realise I can't do a certain thing anymore it's like a buzz of joy checking it off the list of "things I'll never be thin enough to do again" haha. Plus it's fun seeing people's reactions when they're doing something physical and I'm too fat to do it, so I'm just sitting, and usually eating something which is just making the "problem" worse in their eyes ha!

John78:
I definitely do underestimate things too, sometimes I think I'm not that fat/unfit and stand up on the train and my knees are wrecked at the end of the journey, it recently happened and I was surprised how much I was sweating just standing there. I love making those little changes to make life more comfortable and easier to gain it really feels like you're betraying your former self if you were skinnier before, like when you take the car instead of walking to the shops, or when you buy a car you get an auto instead of a manual so it's easier, its all aimed towards a future where you're fatter.

Yeah I have one of those lists too, great thought about the sitting their eating and people judging hadn't added that to the equation. I feel like I'm at a tipping point where I'll be eating more in public simply because I can't help it and I look forward to any comments or reactions. Do you ever purposely eat a lot to see if you can get a comment?