Lifestyle tips

Man if she feels bad with so much weight, you should think about her health. Gain relationships should be agreed upon and consensual by the couple. Talk to her about her limits and whether she thinks she should lose weight for her health and mobility.

Hey, this is gross behavior. You are forcing her to have a body that she isn't concerning to because it makes you horny. That is abuse.

It would be one thing if she was indifferent or eager to get that big. But if she is expressing concern and feels like she got too big, you need to back off. At the very least help her maintain the weight until she decides what to do.

Do not influence her decision. Do not sabotage her choices. Do not be the feeder that the mainstream media believes every single of us feeders are like. Be better.

Gonna be a yikes from me chief

I hope she sees this and leaves you. What a disgusting way to treat someone.

I just threw up in my mouth.

The way you have spoken about your wife and her misgivings doesn't show any empathy for her feelings. Rather than talk about her fears or nervousness in depth, you belittle them by calling it "cold feet." Rather than talk about what, if anything, she finds exciting or enjoyable about being fat and how to manage that against the risks of being so large, you try to make your feelings hers by saying you think she'd enjoy being 500, despite apparently being nervous at 450.



Be honest. Do you really believe this? What would you do if she said, outright, that she wants to lose weight--for *any* reason?

I don't think that's an "if," unfortunately

We all gave you advice. The advice was to lay off. You just don't like how everyone came together and agreed you were being abusive.

The truth is that you weren't looking for advice. You were looking for validation. Because when you didn't hear what you wanted to hear, you got upset.

Advice: go to your wife, show her this account, and then say "I clearly do not value you as a person and only as a sentient pile of fat to mold for my fantasy and nothing else. You deserve much better treatment than I have given you."

Then call a divorce lawyer. You do not have the maturity to be married.

If you're like this to strangers on the internet who recognize how abusive you're being to her, I wonder what you're like to her behind closed doors.

Except we did give you advice. Like the comments above, you just don't like the advice that any of us gave. Your wife deserves so much better.