Hi mate.
I think you should not pressure her in anyway. Let her find herself and support whatever she decides. I don't wish to sound rude as i am a feeder myself.
But it's her body her choice. That said chances are eventually she will become bigger than she is now in time. If she diet's in 80% of diets it eventually leads to additional weight gain. Also if she is experiencing mobility issues she maybe frightened or worried. Give her time to adjust and accept her situation.
Give her reassurance that you will help her with things as they become more difficult for her. She maybe feeling vulnerable as she is loosing her independence. It's all part of the course. Be patient and look after her.
She is obviously a special woman to go as far as she already has. Talk to her look after her.
My partner has tried diets and lost weight only to gain it back and more on several occasions over the years.
She can now barely stand and i have just let her do exactly what she wanted. She says she has done everything to herself. We know before too long she is going to be immobile. We are making plans for when it happens.
Good luck hope you can both be happy.
2 years
