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Health issues and how to deal w/needing to lose weight

Being a feedee or fantasizing about being one is my #1 go to. I'm recovering (recovered?) from a very painful back issue and never want to repeat it from extra weight loading my spine with too much pressure. My weight didn't cause the injury but it played a key role in prolonging it. As an aside, I was on meds that seemed to promote weight gain, but going off of those and trying to lose weight with other treatments has helped to where I'm finally out of the pain. But I find myself unsatisfied and don't know what to do with that.

Is there anyone out there with the feedee kink but needing to stop and lose weight because of health issues? How are you going about weight loss and how do still get your sexual needs met when you can't participate as you did before?
2 years