Fillmefatter:
My partner and I are happily married. When we were dating we were very sexually active, but lately it seems like things have been off. I have been open about my fat admiration and they said that was fine and made them feel more accepted for their current body. They are willing to talk about wg stuff when we have sex. This is great, but lately it seems like every night they don't want to have sex. There is always some reason they don't want to and sometimes it feels real and others it feels like it is something else.
I have been open about how it makes me feel. I feel like it might be because of being into WG and FA. I'm feeling like maybe I should say I don't want to do the WG play or talk about FA stuff even though I like it. I've asked what they are into and suggested that too, but it seems like they still are disinterested.
How do other people navigate this sort of thing?
Have you talked them about what they're going through? Maybe it's due to feedism stuff. Maybe it's something else.
Correct me if I am wrong, but it sounds like you are centering yourself in this situation. You told hin how it made you feel. You assume you know what the situation is so you try to make compromises. But it doesn't sound like you know what's actually going on.
No judgement. This is hurting you and he's not telling you what's wrong. But have you asked him if he's going through something?
