Gaining

For those who have gained on purpose...

1. Do you ever regret it?
2. Do you frequently regret it?
3. Do you have mixed feelings about it?
4. If you had it to do over, would you still do it?
5. If you had it to do over, would you have started gaining even sooner?
6. Do you plan to gain more in the future, stay the same or lose weight? Or are you just going to see what happens?

These are pretty much yes or no questions, but feel free to add details.
1 year

For those who have gained on purpose...

1. Do you ever regret it?
Yes.
2. Do you frequently regret it?
No.
3. Do you have mixed feelings about it?
Yes. Only in a social vacuum fantasy world would I not feel conflicted.
4. If you had it to do over, would you still do it?
Excellent question. Yes. My desire to get fat and fatter is just too strong to suppress.
5. If you had it to do over, would you have started gaining even sooner?
I actually did try to gain several times when I was younger, with minimal success. It wasn’t until I was about 30 that I committed myself to gaining 100+ pounds, and was eventually successful.
6. Do you plan to gain more in the future, stay the same or lose weight? Or are you just going to see what happens?
My life circumstances changed dramatically a year ago. I’m just going to see what happens.
1 year

For those who have gained on purpose...

1. Do you ever regret it?
No
2. Do you frequently regret it?
Never
3. Do you have mixed feelings about it?
No
4. If you had it to do over, would you still do it?
Yes
5. If you had it to do over, would you have started gaining even sooner?
I pretty much started gradually putting on weight at the earliest I could. But in an alt reality where I never was that person I cannot say.
6. Do you plan to gain more in the future, stay the same or lose weight? Or are you just going to see what happens?

It is kinda inevitable I’m gonna gain more weight, but for the time being, yes, I’m maintaining a gain caloric intake we’ll see how it pans out.
1 year

For those who have gained on purpose...

AskDrFeeder:
1. Do you ever regret it? Never
2. Do you frequently regret it? Never
3. Do you have mixed feelings about it? No
4. If you had it to do over, would you still do it? Absolutely
5. If you had it to do over, would you have started gaining even sooner? I was fat by the time I was in elementary school and super sized by high school, but I'd definitely have started adding more weight in college if I knew how much I love being 400+.
6. Do you plan to gain more in the future, stay the same or lose weight? Or are you just going to see what happens? Yes, I want to get fatter. Another 25 to 50 pounds sounds good.

These are pretty much yes or no questions, but feel free to add details.
1 year

For those who have gained on purpose...

1. Do you ever regret it?
Yeah, totally
2. Do you frequently regret it?
No, it's pretty infrequent
3. Do you have mixed feelings about it?
Not generally
4. If you had it to do over, would you still do it?
Yes, absolutely
5. If you had it to do over, would you have started gaining even sooner?
No, I think it was the perfect time for me to take the plunge
6. Do you plan to gain more in the future, stay the same or lose weight? Or are you just going to see what happens?
99% sure I'll gain more in the future, but hey, you never know, you know?
1 year

For those who have gained on purpose...

1. Do you ever regret it?
Yes, but only once or twice.
2. Do you frequently regret it?
No I don't.
3. Do you have mixed feelings about it?
Yes of course, sometimes.
4. If you had it to do over, would you still do it?
Definitely yes!
5. If you had it to do over, would you have started gaining even sooner?
Probably.
6. Do you plan to gain more in the future, stay the same or lose weight? Or are you just going to see what happens?
I'm planing to gain some more, but I'll kinda see what happens and maybe slow down when it feels "perfect".
11 months

For those who have gained on purpose...

1 no. I don't regret it. I love being fat. And I never want to be thin again.
2 this sounds like the first question. I never think about ever being thin.
3 nope never.
4 I most certainly would get fat again. If I had to start over.
5 Yes. I wish that I would have gave into gluttony back in fifth grade.
6 Yes I want to get even fatter soon.
11 months

For those who have gained on purpose...

1. Do you ever regret it?
No, I have gone through several “growing spurts” over the years and don’t regret any.

2. Do you frequently regret it?
See 1.

3. Do you have mixed feelings about it?
Not really. Everybody has shitty days, when they don’t feel good about themselves. So yes, there are times when I am frustrated or annoyed by how difficult basic activities can be when you’re very fat, but those moments pass and I am very happy and content with my obese self.

4. If you had it to do over, would you still do it?
Absolutely, I love eating way too much to restrict myself and I very much enjoy feeling fat all over my body.

5. If you had it to do over, would you have started gaining even sooner?
I have always been at least chunky. So probably not. However, I wish I would have shed the societal doubts and guilt over my weight sooner.

6. Do you plan to gain more in the future, stay the same or lose weight? Or are you just going to see what happens?
Most of my gain comes from the “whatever happens” place. However, weight loss or even staying the same indefinitely is very likely not in the cards for me. I love eating and I love eating large quantities, so I will always go through phases of weight gain.
11 months

For those who have gained on purpose...

1. Do you ever regret it?
So far I haven’t. I’ve been very back and forth about it in the past but now I’ve been doing it with little to no regret. I just accept that what I want isn’t to appeal to what standards or expectations others have for me.

2. Do you frequently regret it?
Same answer above

3. Do you have mixed feelings about it?
Sometimes my feelings get a little messy, but I always reassure myself I’m not trying to appeal to other peoples standards, I am my own human and can do what I want.

4. If you had it to do over, would you still do it?
Like lose the weight and gain it back? Yes! That sounds like fun! What an exciting trip that would be to see my body changing in crazy ways.

5. If you had it to do over, would you have started gaining even sooner?
If I knew my feelings about being confident for who I am, then yes, I would’ve become my own man sooner and done what makes me happy, which is gaining.

6. Do you plan to gain more in the future, stay the same or lose weight? Or are you just going to see what happens?
I’m currently still in the gaining process, I’m at 195lbs just started, but I hope to get to 250lbs, I don’t want to ruin my life with too much weight or ruin my health, I plan to gain a belly and stop there, and just have occasional fun with stuffing myself.
11 months

For those who have gained on purpose...

1. Do you ever regret it?

Ever at all? Anyone who has gone from skinny to fat, and thus experienced the loss of thin privilege, must have regretted it at some point. But never often, and never after reflecting on what my gain has given me.

2. Do you frequently regret it?

No.

3. Do you have mixed feelings about it?

No.

4. If you had it to do over, would you still do it?

Most definitely.

5. If you had it to do over, would you have started gaining even sooner?

I started when my circumstances permitted.

6. Do you plan to gain more in the future, stay the same or lose weight? Or are you just going to see what happens?

I’m actively gaining.
11 months
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