Beerbelly:
Has anyone come up with a solution to sleeve length being to long on larger size clothing? Has any one brought shirts to a tailor?
I also have the same issue as a 500 pound woman who is only 5'3", both with sleeve length and hemline.
There are a few women's retailers out there who custom make clothing if you send your measurements. Of course, they're a tad pricey, but I find it's a good investment for a few nicer items. I'm sure men might have similar options.
For other items, like casual dresses, I fork over for a tailor. I have a place I use regularly, and the tailor pretty much charges a flat rate regardless of what I bring in.
For casual items, like sweatshirts, I just deal with it. I also end up opting for short sleeve tops often, because I do overheat very easily.