Wolfer:
I'm new and just got smacked by a bunch of messages from girls who I'm pretty sure saw "feeder" in my profile and ran with it! Anyone else had this happen to them?
This is fairly common. If you are a man, you'll get DMs from women asking/demanding money from you. This is double true if you are a male feeder.
Ignore and block them. A lot of these are catfish and scammers.