PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee.
Canuck:
keep in mind, this isn't a dating site. how someone shows up in a search is not a concern for a lot of members, because they're not "seeking" another person. we're here for the discussion, the chat (for the chat itself), the stories, etc.
it you want to select potential partners based on a set of filters, try a dayting app like wooplus. it's how my partner found me.
I don't think that's what OP is talking about.
There's a specific user flavor on here that I come across a lot. It's not gender-specific, either. These people will put in just enough effort in their profile to fill it out partially, but then, despite being strictly feedees, not take the two seconds to update their kink from feeder (the default) to feedee.
Then, when interacting with others on the site, they get confused as to why others are treating them like a feedee.
There are a couple of reasons for this.
1. Non-native English speakers that mixed feedee and feeder up.
2. Being lazy.
The first group gets a pass, but the second?
Oy very.
Istg, they are annoying. And they always act so entitled too. Like you feeding them is a gift to mankind when you just wanted to make conversation.
