Plushie:
Are you only interested in feeder/feedee for getting off or do you try creating an actual relationships with these individuals?
Like, when talking to a feedee or a feeder is it only to talk with them to like get off or do you try and pursue an actual long lasting romantic relationship with them?
Is it just for the fetish or is the fetish a lifestyle?
I have always been one for actual relationships and creating a connection. I just in general want to gain weight and be fat, combined with spending time and do other activities together with my SO.
Gaining weight and being fat for me, is a personal decision and a lifestyle that I wish to fulfill. It is something that I wish for myself and achieve the body that I feel at most home in.
If the person I am dating or are in a relationship with, is a feeder? That is a plus on the side, but I still do hope we would still do regular things combined. Like watch movies together, cinema, going somewhere for an adventure or just taking a walk somewhere.
For me there is so much more to life than a temporary rush of serotonin and a stuffed belly. I want to connect with my SO, build a life and just live happy together.
From the time I was single, I was usually quite anxious if anything I said or mentioned, would come off the wrong way.
I know the sites and apps was indeed feederism oriented space, but I felt scared if I would say something that would make someone feel uncomfortable. I did not wish to be someones bad experience, when the person was genuinely trying to find that special one.
