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Stockylove:
I'm writing this topic because, maybe I'm wrong but....
I feel like there are a lot of asexual people in the gainer community, and people who have kinks on their bellies and fat. Think maybe I'm a little asexual myself or on a spectrum that's close to it. Finally, if my observations are accurate and not biased, do you think you know what would explain this?

Stockylove:
I'm writing this topic because, maybe I'm wrong but....
I feel like there are a lot of asexual people in the gainer community, and people who have kinks on their bellies and fat. Think maybe I'm a little asexual myself or on a spectrum that's close to it. Finally, if my observations are accurate and not biased, do you think you know what would explain this?

Munchies:
First thing you gotta remember is that the term "gainer" came from the LGBTQIA+ community. So, naturally, some people people from that community may prefer to use that term over feedee.

Also, these days gainer means "someone who wants to be fat". There are a lot.of ace people that engage in kink but do not want to be sexual with someome else. Being a gainer allows people to do that. Unlike feedees that prefer to be fed, most gainers prefer to do it solo or are ambivilent to being fed.

JN_TumLover56:
Don’t know if this answer your question or anything… But when it comes to Feederism or anything kinds relating to a certain body part, I don’t think you really need sex to make it worthwhile??

I mean speaking from experience I have enjoyed plenty of naughty time with plenty of interests and partners in the past and I never really had to do any penetration during any of it. It’s like having belly play time, is pretty much sex to me. But like I said it’s just me, not the next fella would agree with myself.

JN_TumLover56:
Don’t know if this answer your question or anything… But when it comes to Feederism or anything kinds relating to a certain body part, I don’t think you really need sex to make it worthwhile??

I mean speaking from experience I have enjoyed plenty of naughty time with plenty of interests and partners in the past and I never really had to do any penetration during any of it. It’s like having belly play time, is pretty much sex to me. But like I said it’s just me, not the next fella would agree with myself.

FAMGM:
I’ve certainly found that the fatter I’ve got the less important actual sex is. I can well imagine that at 600 lbs I won’t care about it.

FAMGM:
I’ve certainly found that the fatter I’ve got the less important actual sex is. I can well imagine that at 600 lbs I won’t care about it.

Stockylove:
And more the dick is buried and disappear. Coïncidence?

I do not think so 😉