Belly gaining and asexuality.

Joined 6 months

I'm writing this topic because, maybe I'm wrong but....
I feel like there are a lot of asexual people in the gainer community, and people who have kinks on their bellies and fat. Think maybe I'm a little asexual myself or on a spectrum that's close to it. Finally, if my observations are accurate and not biased, do you think you know what would explain this?

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Belly gaining and asexuality.

Munchies

Joined 2 years

Stockylove:
I'm writing this topic because, maybe I'm wrong but....
I feel like there are a lot of asexual people in the gainer community, and people who have kinks on their bellies and fat. Think maybe I'm a little asexual myself or on a spectrum that's close to it. Finally, if my observations are accurate and not biased, do you think you know what would explain this?

First thing you gotta remember is that the term "gainer" came from the LGBTQIA+ community. So, naturally, some people people from that community may prefer to use that term over feedee.

Also, these days gainer means "someone who wants to be fat". There are a lot.of ace people that engage in kink but do not want to be sexual with someome else. Being a gainer allows people to do that. Unlike feedees that prefer to be fed, most gainers prefer to do it solo or are ambivilent to being fed.

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Belly gaining and asexuality.

Stockylove

Joined 6 months

Stockylove:
I'm writing this topic because, maybe I'm wrong but....
I feel like there are a lot of asexual people in the gainer community, and people who have kinks on their bellies and fat. Think maybe I'm a little asexual myself or on a spectrum that's close to it. Finally, if my observations are accurate and not biased, do you think you know what would explain this?

Munchies:
First thing you gotta remember is that the term "gainer" came from the LGBTQIA+ community. So, naturally, some people people from that community may prefer to use that term over feedee.

Also, these days gainer means "someone who wants to be fat". There are a lot.of ace people that engage in kink but do not want to be sexual with someome else. Being a gainer allows people to do that. Unlike feedees that prefer to be fed, most gainers prefer to do it solo or are ambivilent to being fed.

Ha i see.

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Belly gaining and asexuality.

LydiaFatPuppy

Joined 1 year

weight is kink for lotta feeder but many feedees do for body preferences

you have tattoos or gagues in ears

your allow to be a body builder or a stong man

you be girl or a man and you get medcal assistance now.

why can i chose be a big cuddly girl why that not ok but chnaging my gender is

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JN_TumLover56

Joined 3 years

Don’t know if this answer your question or anything… But when it comes to Feederism or anything kinds relating to a certain body part, I don’t think you really need sex to make it worthwhile??

I mean speaking from experience I have enjoyed plenty of naughty time with plenty of interests and partners in the past and I never really had to do any penetration during any of it. It’s like having belly play time, is pretty much sex to me. But like I said it’s just me, not the next fella would agree with myself.

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Belly gaining and asexuality.

Stockylove

Joined 6 months

JN_TumLover56:
Don’t know if this answer your question or anything… But when it comes to Feederism or anything kinds relating to a certain body part, I don’t think you really need sex to make it worthwhile??

I mean speaking from experience I have enjoyed plenty of naughty time with plenty of interests and partners in the past and I never really had to do any penetration during any of it. It’s like having belly play time, is pretty much sex to me. But like I said it’s just me, not the next fella would agree with myself.

yes I am like that too. I put the practice of feederism at the same level of importance as sex. Sometimes it is even more important. In truth I have the impression that certain kinks are so invasive and all-consuming that they put everything else into the background, or even eclipse it completely (and that's not a problem in itself, it's just a different way of experiencing sexual pleasure)

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Belly gaining and asexuality.

Stockylove

Joined 6 months

JN_TumLover56:
Don’t know if this answer your question or anything… But when it comes to Feederism or anything kinds relating to a certain body part, I don’t think you really need sex to make it worthwhile??

I mean speaking from experience I have enjoyed plenty of naughty time with plenty of interests and partners in the past and I never really had to do any penetration during any of it. It’s like having belly play time, is pretty much sex to me. But like I said it’s just me, not the next fella would agree with myself.

yes I am like that too. I put the practice of feederism at the same level of importance as sex. Sometimes it is even more important. In truth I have the impression that certain kinks are so invasive and all-consuming that they put everything else into the background, or even eclipse it completely (and that's not a problem in itself, it's just a different way of experiencing sexual pleasure)

Anyway, I feel so happy and lucky to be born in a time where you can find people who have the same kinks and fetishes as you, and then be able to meet them through the internet. I don't know how people did it before.

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FAMGM

Joined 1 year

I’ve certainly found that the fatter I’ve got the less important actual sex is. I can well imagine that at 600 lbs I won’t care about it.

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Belly gaining and asexuality.

Stockylove

Joined 6 months

FAMGM:
I’ve certainly found that the fatter I’ve got the less important actual sex is. I can well imagine that at 600 lbs I won’t care about it.

And more the dick is buried and disappear. Coïncidence?

I do not think so 😉

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Munchies

Joined 2 years

FAMGM:
I’ve certainly found that the fatter I’ve got the less important actual sex is. I can well imagine that at 600 lbs I won’t care about it.

Stockylove:
And more the dick is buried and disappear. Coïncidence?

I do not think so 😉

Eh

I take your meaning, but I want to emphasis that the size of your fat pad or how buried your dick is has nothing to do with your libido. It also doesn't mean you can't have sex. You might need to get creative, but that's it.

I bring this up because a lot of people with dicks worry that if they get really fat, even with a willing partner, that's the end of their sex lives.

And yes. This can include some ace peeps.

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