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Or is it just that you don’t accept trans? After more than a decade where not a single one of you saw fit to talk to me, I wonder.

Personally, I don't speak to people unless they speak to me first.

I don't deny there are transphobes on here. But that falls apart when you consider there are other trans people on here. I've also seen many a thirsty comment from cis people towards people they know are trans.

What has been your experience, if I may?

I get people who randomly message me sometimes, but it’s awful rare and I’m fairly visible on the forums, so people have a chance to run across my profile pretty often. I’ve made really great friends here, but they’re folks I’ve interacted with on the forums talking about hobbies or shared interests, it wasn’t just blind messages. I think Munchies is right, you get back what you give more often than not, and you have to put yourself in situations and places where you can show people who you are before you expect either a blind message or an answer to an unsolicited message. Particularly with the message limit. People aren’t going to spend a message on someone they don’t have a feel for.

I'd love to talk about anything so long as we can allow the conversation to enter the domain of phylosophy.

(also it occurs to me, from the looks of it, that the first post might have been deleted and we see a comment as the original post? Or am i wrong?)

No, OP's post is still there. They just haven't responded yet. I assume this is because they have a life outside of FF.

Personally, I’d like to talk here just about anything really. You don’t have to be a cute nerdy girl to message me (unless you’re interested in a feeder or RP)

I have tried to connect many times with a great many and been bitten for my troubles.
I’ve been around here for more than a decade and seen things get worse.
Mirroring the general state I have seen far too close up IRL.
No offence, but I didn’t expect a response from anyone-going by experience.
Thanks to all of you who.

Yeah, there's a lot of shitty people on here. But it is possible to make friends. It's a game of quality over quantity.

That said, sometimes you have to be patient. I went through a period of life with no friends. Looking back, this was because of my environment and that I wasn't in a good headspace to be anyone's friend. Once I dealt with my headspace, I was able to find 1 person to befriend. This person later became my best friend. And once I got into a better environment, I found a lot more.

I find the issue to be the same, regardless of who or where or how far. It is the same thing that gets me beaten in the streets and abused by NHS.
Some people are worthy of a life and others are judged to be not worthy.
The majority is law.

Not going to pretend I know what your exact situation is like since I'm cis. However, I am a dark-skinned black woman living in KKK country. I've been attacked and assaulted for both my race and my gender. At some point, you kinda get to a place where you have no more fucks to give and do what you want.

It's also really good to get your mind off of your own problems and focus outwards. Look into volunteering. Find some organizations geared towards LGBTQIA+ spaces. You can make some friends, mentor some people, and maybe event find some help with your current HRT situation. Couldn't hurt to try.