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Anyone have any ideas on how to your non feedist partner or spouse in your kink.

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Justinboo0313   United States
Joined 1 year
It’s really hard sometimes to try and explain yourself to someone who doesn’t understand your kink. I would like her to switch to a more dominant role sometimes. And feed me or at least feed each other. I’ve told her this but I know she has no idea what she should do. She has always been very willing to indulge me but this is different. I told her I want to be the sub feedee more. I try so hard to describe what I want. She’s always let me feed her and gain in the process. But she looked at me like I have three eyes, when I said I want her to do to me what she’s aloud me to do to her. I get it this is not her kink. So I do understand. Any thoughts? Title is supposed to say how to involve you non feedist partner or spouse. Sorry
4 months

Anyone have any ideas on how to your non feedist partner or spouse in your kink.

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Lbd4   United States
Joined 4 months
Justinboo0313:
I get it this is not her kink. So I do understand.


So you do understand. You want to know how to wish this kink on to her. I get it. 100%. I would love it if my husband felt my kinks and fetishes, but they’re mine not his. Imagine she got off on sucking your toes. You’re not ever thinking ‘oh, my toes sure could use a good sucking.’ No, you're letting her suck your toes because she loves it and you love her. It’s not awful. Maybe sometimes it feels good and you let out a moan.
She asks you to suck her toes and you love her and she’s washed her feet so you shrug and put her big toe in your mouth and suck. And she’s looking at you like how is this dude not cuming in his pants and you’re looking at her like ‘now what’.
She loves you. With your kinks. That is flipping awesome. Yay for love.
4 months

Anyone have any ideas on how to your non feedist partner or spouse in your kink.

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Monthofdays   United States
Joined 17 years
Justinboo0313:
I get it this is not her kink. So I do understand.

Lbd4:
So you do understand. You want to know how to wish this kink on to her. I get it. 100%. I would love it if my husband felt my kinks and fetishes, but they’re mine not his. Imagine she got off on sucking your toes. You’re not ever thinking ‘oh, my toes sure could use a good sucking.’ No, you're letting her suck your toes because she loves it and you love her. It’s not awful. Maybe sometimes it feels good and you let out a moan.
She asks you to suck her toes and you love her and she’s washed her feet so you shrug and put her big toe in your mouth and suck. And she’s looking at you like how is this dude not cuming in his pants and you’re looking at her like ‘now what’.
She loves you. With your kinks. That is flipping awesome. Yay for love.


Lol.

Perfection.



Justin, have you tried showing her pornographic media that really hees your haa?

There's bound to be a c4s, erotic story, deviant art comic, etc., you enjoy that might provide your wife with a little inspiration.
4 months