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Heyy guys, i find really hard finding a feedee, i really want to create a long term relationship (it has not to be romantic, maybe if things go well i can think about it), but everytime i try to talk with a feedee they just start to ask money or ghost me, what can i do?

You've been here for one day. Calm your tits.

I'd probably just try dating plus sized people and introduce them to feederism at some point in relationship. Shockingly most have been receptive to it and it's how I have been able to experience feederism for the most part.
Actually dating a feedee seems rough cause of stuff you said above or cause they're already taken.

You know I feel this because I was someone like that a long time ago. I know that some (but not all) of us would like to have a chubby queen/king to spoil with food and love. BUT be aware that Feederism is a business as well as a fetish. And some of these people who you’ll meet will try to take advantage of your kindness to get money out of you. Especially if it’s for their “emergencies”. This is one of the main reasons why I retired being a feeder, because I am not falling victim to that trap anymore, because it ended up ruining me and my perspective. It’s just not worth the hassle in my opinion.

HOWEVER… if you really want this. Then my advice to you is to set yourself some boundaries and know what you want. And if you’re going to be rejected because of it, that’s totally fine. It’ll happen with dating as long as you got perseverance to handle it. Secondly, it’s a simple one… and that is to don’t give up trying! It may take you awhile, but it could only mean a greater outcome.

Anyways, I wish you luck and I hope you can find the feedee of your dreams one day. 👍

You are not the only one. It's hard to find the right person, but hang in there. And while you wait, get your financial house in order. There are few better feeders than ones who can easily afford food, clothes, plane tickets and such.

I mean, becoming financially stable is important, but that's not nearly enough. Many (usually male) feeders mistake being financially stable and monetarily generous for being someone worthy of spending time with.

Besides, despite guys griping about the contrary, there are many (usually female) feedees who refuse money from unfamiliar feeders because they will take that as them owing them for things they don't want. For example, because a feeder paid a feedee for food, they owe them nudes.

In my experience, the best way to get into a feedist relationship is to be someone they can be vulnerable with and not have your fetish as the main/sole part of your relationship. This should be a person you can at least see yourself being friends with.

this cant be honest enough. i talk alot now with my partner about the fantasy aspects within feederism and how reality in a relationship works. At fantasy feeder, the community feels like it put the fetish first and thats the impression ive gotten with the interactions ive recieved and thats not where growing relationships start. romantic or not.

I have to agree on that it feels like this is more at times a fetish community less than a dating app despite it technically being both evenly but it pushes more towards other

It's really a fetish community first and foremost. That's why people in monogamous relationships with profiles clearly stating they don't want anyone are on here.

Including me. If this was a dating site, y'all wouldn't see me at all.

Yeah you're right when you put it that way makes sense