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Hi people

Seems there is a lot of emphasis on sending gifts whether explicitly asking or alluded to after a small amount of chat, does anyone partake in this and does it satisfy anyone?

Just curious really, I see the thread about it at the top of the forum that's locked advising against it

I am once again asking people not to give money to internet strangers. And on the flip side, do not accept money from internet strangers.

Never ends well.

If someone you don't know demands or suggests money out of you, there's a high chance that this person is a scammer or a user.

If someone you don't know offers you money, there's a high chance they are trying to buy power over you.

Now, if you are a sex worker or other kind of content creator, I'm not talking about you. That's a business thing that both parties have consented to. I'm talking about the regular-degular crowd. Take the time to get to know each other first for at least a few months. Once you can trust each other, then do gifts.

I'm dating my current feedee. He was my feedee before we started dating. He paid for his own food initially before I decided I could trust him and pay for his food and sometimes get him other things.

Should there be list of known users that do this? Just asking really, seems it's so common

No because that would just incentivize beggars to that list. Stick to content creators if you’re gonna do anything like that. The general public can’t handle it

Not sure why that would be a problem, if the member is on the list you know what's expected if you chat or if they are not on there it might dissuade them from asking for money as mods could add them with chat evidence

What good would that do? A determined enough person can easily pretend to be someone else. The list would only be useful for the truly stupid. On top of all that, a lot of men will label women who reject their advances as scammers, so that would render the whole thing useless.

Just screenshot and send a report to admin.

I don’t understand the angle here at all, like it would be nice to have someone pay for my food and stuff; I can easily spend 500-600 dollars just on food in 1 weekend just on food but I don’t understand the wanting to pay for it, like I don’t even wanna pay for my own food and food brings me joy, I don’t understand wanting to pay for someone else is that like financial fem dom stuff or something. I might be a pig but I’m not a pay pig

That would require too much maintenance, people would just make new accounts to evade it.

There's multiple reasons.

For example, practicality. Fattening up is expensive. So if a feeder wants to fatten a feedee, it makes sense to provide the food in whole or in part. This is especially true if a feeder wants the feedee to eat something or somewhere specific.

Other feeders like being directly responsible for the feedee's weight gain. If they can cook and/or hand feed the feedee themselves, paying for the food is the next best thing.

In my case, I buy my partner food because I love spoiling him. He never asks me for anything, so it's all the sweeter when I surprise him with something that he enjoys.

Gotta remember that not everyone enjoys the same things you do and vice versa.

So it’s feeding vicariously gotcha that makes sense!

I feel like if I were to eat on someone else’s dime I’d hold back just out of principle lol