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How to deal with people's reactions

I have been doing belly filling for a really long time. I am now 18 and have been doing it since I was 13 or so and I am now being told more and more often that I should start exercising because I am feeling forced, what should I do now and how should I do it? I respond and deal with it?
1 year

How to deal with people's reactions

Sofiechubbybellydutch:
I have been doing belly filling for a really long time. I am now 18 and have been doing it since I was 13 or so and I am now being told more and more often that I should start exercising because I am feeling forced, what should I do now and how should I do it? I respond and deal with it?
if its like your parents or family i would not know but others just say wel yea i can enjoy my whole day and not worry about not enjoying food
1 year

How to deal with people's reactions

Morbidly A Beast:
You are an adult now and can make decisions for yourself say that.

Nobody thinks it’s on purpose unless you tell them, to them they are just concerned tell them to mind their own business


Good advice! You really don’t owe anyone an explanation about your body and your eating habits!
1 year

How to deal with people's reactions

I’ve noticed that my girlfriend would get most of the comments back in the days, as she was growing from the low 200s to the high 300s. Friends and family were genuinely worried and wanted her to get back to a “healthier” weight. I’d say at around 380 was their last attempt to save her. Past 400, they gradually stopped commenting, especially as she was getting closer to the weight she is now, of 565. It is as if they know that not much can be done at this stage and gave up hope. They don’t even know her stats or that she has truly gotten into the gaining fetish although i believe they suspect of my feeder tendencies
1 year

How to deal with people's reactions

The first year or so of gaining I had a lot of friends and family try to intervene but eventually they gave up when they realized I wasn't going to get smaller.

As long as you are happy and healthy that's all that matters.
1 year

How to deal with people's reactions

At first, people's reactions bothered me but I enjoy it more and more. It means my efforts are working. I dislike having to lie about trying to lose weight but nobody would ever understand or accept it. I try to remember that they care for me even if their words can hurt.
1 year