Enas:
I actually havent seen any story that experiments with a feeder (Id prefer a female one) that acts in a combination of (or uproach something that feels like) a combination of genuine affection but also genuine.... abuse, of some kind? Like, the feeder actively fattening the feedee against their will.
I tried to write a story like this (you can actually read its first chapter on my profile) and it went into a really interesting direction. What you can do, can be for example, if the feeder is in a group of people that needs something desperately (which in the context of the story justifies the "abuse" towards the feedee, of making them fatten up against their will, but simultaniously the specific person who fattens them up does have empathy towards that person. And so they try to show affection on them that on one hand eases the pain of the abuse but on the other hand works, in some limited degree, as coersion. For example the feeder (especially if theyre a sexy looking woman) could bribe the feedee with intense sexual pleasure if they keep eating and gaining. And i think this could take a genuine form because the abuse isnt simply because the person is abusive, but something external causes them desperation which turns into abuse. The contradiction between the kindness and the abuse can also be a psychological burden of the feeder, that will be torturing them.
The problem with this, which is also what fascinates me the most (yes it does make me horny AF but as a concept, mechanically, it fascinates me a lot) is that it will be difficult to have the abuse being genuine. In the sense that if the feedee comes to want it, from that point on its automatically not abuse.
Im really curious what youll think of that!
It's really emotionally draining to write shit like that. That's why you don't see stories like that.
When you write, you develop a deep connection with what you write. You have to think about it, imagine it, hammer out the details, and revisit details if you are making a longer work.
I don't think you appreciation what a big ask this is. You are asking him to put himself in the mind of an abuser and her victim but make the victim like it. Sure, some people are down to clown, but most are not.