Fat experiences

I have loved fat ever since I can remember. Obviously, a big part of my “fat love” is not sexually motivated, since I was intrigued and attracted to fat as a child long before puberty and sexuality. I have always loved food and eating and in my child’s mind I think I equated being fat with unlimited access to your favorite foods. And even now, although I am sexually attracted to fat women, I appreciate and find fat beautiful in all genders. I love fat as a sign of gluttony and abundance!

A beloved art teacher who I knew when I was very young.

She was a fun and kind-hearted person and I loved being in her class. I really looked up to her.

She was also a very large woman. She had an extra wide bottom, and I was fascinated by the way it spilled over the sides of her chair whenever she sat down.

I remember seeing that bottom one day and realizing that I not only wanted to grow up to be kind and talented like my favorite teacher. I also wanted to be large and round and soft like her too.

I felt drawn to fat people ever since and I still dream of a day when I can become one myself!

When I was a child, I always wanted to be fat; just like my two aunts were. I began eating a lot when I was eight years old. By the time school started in the fall, I was fat. I outweighed my older sister by fifty pounds. I remember my clothes were getting smaller that I started getting a noticeable belly that would poke out of my t-shirt. My cousin who is the same age as I am; and fat, would have an eating contest to stuff our bellies. The two of us would be bumping our bellies for a "belly bucking" contest. Sometimes I would bump him to the floor. Till then, I would always outweigh my mother and sister as an adult.

I’ve always loved telling mine and my wife’s gaining story — always love seeing these “origin story” threads :-)

My first memory of encountering fat was a regained memory told to me years after the fact by my mother. I would play with the arm fat of any female relative when I was a toddler and was being held. I’m told my grandmother slapped me one time for doing it.

In young adulthood, I felt the attraction to chubby girls starting in middle school and on into high school. I didn’t have a girlfriend until I was out of high school (wasn’t ever part of the clique, as they say), but nothing turned me on like a pair of chubby cheeks, chubby upper arms or big thighs. Chubby bare feet still turn me on as well :-)

My first steady girlfriend wasn’t all that fat to start out with, but over five years we ate well enough to fill out the both of us. Her arms and belly puffed out mightily; probably gained at least 50 pounds being with me.

Another five-year relationship followed when I moved to another state. She was already heavy, about 5-6 and anywhere between 220 and 270 over the course of that time. She was insecure about it and, along with being bipolar and in denial about it, never really relaxed and enjoyed her own existence, much less her luscious figure.

I met my wife 10 years ago now, at a concert. Mutual friend of ours made sure we were both there. The friend figured we both needed to stumble upon each other after going through such rough previous relationships. I can still remember the first time I saw her short, 5-3 figure walking upon the rest of our friend group to meet up. A black blouse cut low to emphasize what I would eventually find out were 46 DDD breasts. Cute, chubby face and such a soft touch with everything. I was smitten, though it was another year before we started dating officially.

I was slowly but steadily getting a big ol’ ball belly during these years. A big, hard visceral fat basketball belly! She sure hasn’t minded, being a big girl herself for so long now. She was actually a tiny teen, just with out-of-proportion breasts for what was then her figure. I just recently saw pics of her at 13 that I hadn’t seen before. It’s truly amazing how petite and skinny she was before puberty and the rest of her teen years.

She had her first child barely out of high school and, according to her accounts, gained between 80 and 100 pounds between the pregnancy and health-related issues with certain meds’ effects on her. Three years later, she had the depo shot for birth control and got pregnant (and fatter) anyway with her second child. Wish I’d have known her then so I could have witnessed her body change. Her waistline and belly just exploded in size :-) She stopped wearing underwear at a certain point and her back is big and broad with luscious layers of fat all 300+ pound ladies seem to have. Her butt also grew into a full-fledged “buttshelf” during that time. This is as good a point in the story as any to mention her bra band size was only in the low 30s entering her 20s. So that’s more than 12 inches gained just in her middle since then :-)

We had our first child together three years ago now. She was already just at 300 pounds, so she didn’t have to gain but maybe 20 during the pregnancy. Right now, she’s a proud 345 pounds with a spirit that’s just as soft and tender as her skin :-) We’d have each other no other way but fat and happy.

Most recently, she’s gained something to go along with the pounds — confidence it showing it off! Crop tops and bralettes showing off her soft, pillowy belly are a regular part of her wardrobe now :-) She was once a microcelebrity during the 2000s when podcasting was in its infancy and had her fair share of creeps come on to her onine, so she’s wary of having a profile here. But she’s allowed a few pics on my page here and has loved hearing from those who’ve passed along to me how beautiful she is :-) A lucky few I’ve trusted with seeing her “befores” from several years ago. And so we thank you and hope to see more ladies especially take pride in their fuller figure if they’ve gained like she has :-)

She’s told me she doesn’t ever want to go back to being skinny because she’d be hit on. I had to tell her she’s actually drawing more attention from being fat and it shows :-)

Think mine is similar to some of the above responses, in that as a child larger bodies just intrigued me. The human body always has and I think the variation in how people can look started it off.

All the teachers I had in my early ages of school who were kind and understanding were larger. I always remember the one skinny teacher I had always being incredibly cruel. So I would assume there were some early stage developmental associations in all that.

I think the big stand out one for me is I used to see my mum's best friend most days after primary school. She was a very large lady (I think now if I had to guess she would have been over 300lbs) and gave undeniably amazing hugs!

My story is a bit different, I was honestly terrified of getting fat in middle school, it was early high school that I found that there was something inviting/mesmerizing about soft, jiggly fat. After I started to fixate on that, there was no going back.

I like the way it feels and I've always found fat people to be attractive. Felt natural to me.

Something about the way fat moves and feels is both beautiful and comforting to me. Soothing even.

Since I can remember ive always found fat sexy..The way it looks and feels. My first crush was plump n feeling her body, how soft it was, kinda was like damn this is what I liked think I was like 14 at the time.. It was that feeling, that really did it for me..

I always liked curvy women.

I believe it really started to come out when I was a lifeguard. I remember training in the water with a girl also a lifeguard that was heavier. I wasn't attracted to her but her thigh brushed against me. I really liked how her fat thighs felt and got me curious about girls that were a bit heavier. This soon turned into preferring that women that I date gain a little bit of weight. Ultimately it turned into a primal desire to fatten up my wife.

i don't know when it started for me but I guess I always just loved the size and as the more I gained I liked it even more, being larger then the regural person