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Read profiles, save yourself a heartbreak

Iridescent Pearly:
Thought I had a great kindling of a relationship with another lovely individual or so I thought. I then sent of video of me speaking. Surprise IM TRANS. or it shouldn’t be considering it says I’m a trans woman on my profile. No response for 3 hours turns out I was BLOCKED. God Add another too good to be true heartache. I hate being trans it’s a curse.


Not trans, but I feel your pain. Back during my single pringle days, I'd chat it up with a bunch of dudes who seemed decent. If the conversation went well, I'd say, "Just so you know, I'm black. That's not a problem, is it?"

You'd be shocked at how often that was a problem.

And on top of that, I put my race in my profile. They didn't read it.

But remember, the problem is them - not your transness.
11 months

Read profiles, save yourself a heartbreak

I'm so sorry this happened to you, and everyone who has been shunned for awful reasons that hurt you.

I'm Bi, I'm taken, I'm old, and I'm not here to find someone to bang. LOL! I also wish everyone would take a peek and see, I try to, I consider it a courtesy to learn a little about the person that they'd like me to know. And if it says men DNI, or people over 40 DNI (that stings 🤣) I respect that! 😊
10 months