Fattening others

There aren’t many, if anyone, on feedrism forums or feabie where I live. How would you introduce feedrism and gaining to a new fat girl you’re dating?

I like all sizes but I try for a minimum 220ibs women, or 180ibs if I really have to push it. I feel like this is typically when someone would have a good idea whether they like to be fat or not. But I’m too scared of weirding them out.

How do you go about introducing your kinks? Like hey girl, do you like to eat? Because, I’ll feed you all you can eat and then some. Hate your diet? I’ll put you on the opposite of diet. Struggling to lose weight? You can thrive gaining weight.

Or am I doing rizz wrong? I mean I’m kinda of awkward about and wish to live the dream too, and be a woman’s dream too.

Any advice?

I don’t know if there’s a perfect way to introduce kinks to a new partner, but I’m fairly certain this would be the wrong way to do it.

Yeah, I get that I’m no poet. What I’m trying to say time I don’t want go to a few dates, only to shock the poor woman with a weird kink.

Is there a way to kind of signal it early enough, so the right people know early on? I hope to not waste people’s time by building this expectation only to find out about this deal breaker kink 3 months in.

Most women do not want to gain weight, and if you push it, or even mention it, you'll probably lose her. There is also a lot of things that are important other than gaining. And if a woman thinks you like her only because she will gain, you'll probably lose her. So, you may have to either find her on a gaining website, or mention you like large or gaining woman when you use conventional methods.

Yeah, most women would never do it. I think mentioning before the swipe is the fairest approach, until gaining sites gain some more popularity. It’s not like I swipe on slim profiles either