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DarkChocolateDFF:
I always had the assumption that FF or Feabie were supposed to be more of a dating platform than a bargain for money. It's as if the whole community even my feeder pals keep telling me they can't feed anyone and if I'm having any luck. We all live in NYC we have all been going to bars, cafes, buffets, events, concerts, trying to see if we will all ever have the chance of meeting other open-minded people like us & would wanna share the Feedism lifestyle together. But we are all having no luck at all we all just keep running into people asking for money or them telling us they don't have a more secure job. This is honestly crazy to us because the people we meet tell us they are financially stable and they make it sound as if life is great. But they still need a feeder to buy them food. This also brings me back to the point. It doesn't seem right that feeders have to pay for your food every day me my friends are ok with it but to me everyday living in NYC is crazy expensive. Then some people want feeding sessions they don't even do escorts if you research them I have never once seen some of the people on here's names. It's really just full of scams. My friends and I aren't going to stop trying but we are all planning on posting more about this topic.

DarkChocolateDFF:
I always had the assumption that FF or Feabie were supposed to be more of a dating platform than a bargain for money. It's as if the whole community even my feeder pals keep telling me they can't feed anyone and if I'm having any luck. We all live in NYC we have all been going to bars, cafes, buffets, events, concerts, trying to see if we will all ever have the chance of meeting other open-minded people like us & would wanna share the Feedism lifestyle together. But we are all having no luck at all we all just keep running into people asking for money or them telling us they don't have a more secure job. This is honestly crazy to us because the people we meet tell us they are financially stable and they make it sound as if life is great. But they still need a feeder to buy them food. This also brings me back to the point. It doesn't seem right that feeders have to pay for your food every day me my friends are ok with it but to me everyday living in NYC is crazy expensive. Then some people want feeding sessions they don't even do escorts if you research them I have never once seen some of the people on here's names. It's really just full of scams. My friends and I aren't going to stop trying but we are all planning on posting more about this topic.

Munchies:
Feeder here.

It's not hard to find a quality feedee. If you are struggling to find someone who matches your needs, you will need to change your approach.

Tell me what exactly you are looking for and how you've handled the situation. I can give you advice if you like.

NYCBellyBlimp:
As a boomer who fondly remembers the Fat and Gaining AOL Chatrooms from decades back, there definitely has been a generational and attitude shift.

Most of the bbws>ussbbws I came across were Uptown, Downtown, The Bronx, Queens, NJ etc. especially when the parties were popular in Lower Manhattan, Midtown, Newark Airport, CT etc.

Some were into Feedism, some weren't but were intrigued or didn't know until later on.

From what I see on social media and elsewhere; I wish future FA/Feedists well... as its challenging finding someone on your 'wavelength' (some are more/less extreme than others). Back then, it was taboo to where even NAAFA kept it quiet. Now, some will literally post you on a vlog, even if you prefer privacy.

They are out there, but keep alert as bad economy and this new generation have some big mamas ordering food (not just 4 herself, but others at their homes too) with no shame/batting an eye. Some models were told by their MDs (indirectly) to add a few lbs to qualify for WLS.

Best of Luck.

DarkChocolateDFF:
I always had the assumption that FF or Feabie were supposed to be more of a dating platform than a bargain for money. It's as if the whole community even my feeder pals keep telling me they can't feed anyone and if I'm having any luck. We all live in NYC we have all been going to bars, cafes, buffets, events, concerts, trying to see if we will all ever have the chance of meeting other open-minded people like us & would wanna share the Feedism lifestyle together. But we are all having no luck at all we all just keep running into people asking for money or them telling us they don't have a more secure job. This is honestly crazy to us because the people we meet tell us they are financially stable and they make it sound as if life is great. But they still need a feeder to buy them food. This also brings me back to the point. It doesn't seem right that feeders have to pay for your food every day me my friends are ok with it but to me everyday living in NYC is crazy expensive. Then some people want feeding sessions they don't even do escorts if you research them I have never once seen some of the people on here's names. It's really just full of scams. My friends and I aren't going to stop trying but we are all planning on posting more about this topic.

Munchies:
Feeder here.

It's not hard to find a quality feedee. If you are struggling to find someone who matches your needs, you will need to change your approach.

Tell me what exactly you are looking for and how you've handled the situation. I can give you advice if you like.

DarkChocolateDFF:
I'm looking for a equal realtionship where we both are a 50/50 couple or are able to maintain a long term- relationship, we both pay the bills, were communicating with each never alone, we satisfy each others needs, and then pretty much somewhere down the line grow old together 💖

DarkChocolateDFF:
I always had the assumption that FF or Feabie were supposed to be more of a dating platform than a bargain for money. It's as if the whole community even my feeder pals keep telling me they can't feed anyone and if I'm having any luck. We all live in NYC we have all been going to bars, cafes, buffets, events, concerts, trying to see if we will all ever have the chance of meeting other open-minded people like us & would wanna share the Feedism lifestyle together. But we are all having no luck at all we all just keep running into people asking for money or them telling us they don't have a more secure job. This is honestly crazy to us because the people we meet tell us they are financially stable and they make it sound as if life is great. But they still need a feeder to buy them food. This also brings me back to the point. It doesn't seem right that feeders have to pay for your food every day me my friends are ok with it but to me everyday living in NYC is crazy expensive. Then some people want feeding sessions they don't even do escorts if you research them I have never once seen some of the people on here's names. It's really just full of scams. My friends and I aren't going to stop trying but we are all planning on posting more about this topic.

Munchies:
Feeder here.

It's not hard to find a quality feedee. If you are struggling to find someone who matches your needs, you will need to change your approach.

Tell me what exactly you are looking for and how you've handled the situation. I can give you advice if you like.

DarkChocolateDFF:
I'm looking for a equal realtionship where we both are a 50/50 couple or are able to maintain a long term- relationship, we both pay the bills, were communicating with each never alone, we satisfy each others needs, and then pretty much somewhere down the line grow old together 💖

Munchies:
If you want an egalitarian relationship, you need to focus on egalitarian women. And you need to lead with that as well.

There are a lot of feedists with conservative values. As such, they expect the feeder to be a provider. This attracts a lot of scammers and users.

That said, we 50/50 women are very leery. Too many of us have run into guys who hear "sugar mamma" when we say we want a 50/50 relationship. So you will need to be patient as well.