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Longevity

This is to get opinions,

There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.

Thoughtful responses please.
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Longevity

Bigwideland:
This is to get opinions,

There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.

Thoughtful responses please.


These are my two cents as a woman of color.

Society does not want me to exist. I am at an elevated risk of mortality in all categories simply because of bigotry. I have lost so many friends and family members to bigoted systems - sometimes at a young age.

People like me want to live despite society wanting us to die. We fight for life, both tooth and nail because we deserve it. We refuse to let other's hatred of us determine if we get to live a long life or not.
1 month

Longevity

Bigwideland:
This is to get opinions,

There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.

Thoughtful responses please.

Munchies:
These are my two cents as a woman of color.

Society does not want me to exist. I am at an elevated risk of mortality in all categories simply because of bigotry. I have lost so many friends and family members to bigoted systems - sometimes at a young age.

People like me want to live despite society wanting us to die. We fight for life, both tooth and nail because we deserve it. We refuse to let other's hatred of us determine if we get to live a long life or not.


You might need help!
1 month

Longevity

Bigwideland:
This is to get opinions,

There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.

Thoughtful responses please.

Munchies:
These are my two cents as a woman of color.

Society does not want me to exist. I am at an elevated risk of mortality in all categories simply because of bigotry. I have lost so many friends and family members to bigoted systems - sometimes at a young age.

People like me want to live despite society wanting us to die. We fight for life, both tooth and nail because we deserve it. We refuse to let other's hatred of us determine if we get to live a long life or not.

MRFATS53:
You might need help!


If you are offering to put in the work to advocate for black people, I am for it.

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Longevity

Bigwideland:
This is to get opinions,

There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.

Thoughtful responses please.

Munchies:
These are my two cents as a woman of color.

Society does not want me to exist. I am at an elevated risk of mortality in all categories simply because of bigotry. I have lost so many friends and family members to bigoted systems - sometimes at a young age.

People like me want to live despite society wanting us to die. We fight for life, both tooth and nail because we deserve it. We refuse to let other's hatred of us determine if we get to live a long life or not.



Yes I assumed that you are in aspect of society that is supported to live longer, forgive my white male privilege that is my paradigm to understand and be mindful of when posting.
1 month

Longevity

Bigwideland:
This is to get opinions,

There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.

Thoughtful responses please.

Munchies:
These are my two cents as a woman of color.

Society does not want me to exist. I am at an elevated risk of mortality in all categories simply because of bigotry. I have lost so many friends and family members to bigoted systems - sometimes at a young age.

People like me want to live despite society wanting us to die. We fight for life, both tooth and nail because we deserve it. We refuse to let other's hatred of us determine if we get to live a long life or not.

Bigwideland:
Yes I assumed that you are in aspect of society that is supported to live longer, forgive my white male privilege that is my paradigm to understand and be mindful of when posting.


It's all good.

I do respect those who would rather have a good life over a long life. I have encountered many people who are so focused on not dying that they fail to enjoy living.

I think there's a balance to strike. Leaning too far into pleasure at the expense of life is a dangerous way to live. Ironically, it negatively impacts your quality of life and the lives of those around you. But living your life just to avoid death is a waste of time.
1 month

Longevity

Bigwideland:
This is to get opinions,

There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.

Thoughtful responses please.


I feel like that I have seen enough content from Nas Daily to say something on this topic. Especially since the main guy ALWAYS preaches about living forever.

I think it’s one thing to say that you want to live healthy and as long as you can, especially when you wanna be there for your family and their achievements and whatnot. All that’s great and all, but at the same time why are we also told about the inevitable truth of how nothing lasts forever?

In other words, if someone wants to live long and healthy then more power to them I guess. But what about you (and I’m asking myself this)?? Do YOU want to live forever? Especially with all of the pains and unfairness that you go through of growing and living? Essentially when that means that you’re basically doing (what will feel like) the same thing almost every day but longer until you get too old to do the things that you wish you could do when you’re still young and functional? That doesn’t sound like something that’s worth living long in my opinion.

Now I’m not trying to judge here, I’m more so asking a question. Because while sure I don’t mind living long enough to pass at a respectable old age, I think that it’s better to live a good life other than a long one. Especially when that means that a lot of people who you care about will pass before you do, while this will be different for everyone… I don’t think not everyone is going to handle it.
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Longevity

Bigwideland:
This is to get opinions,

There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.

Thoughtful responses please.

JN_TumLover56:
I feel like that I have seen enough content from Nas Daily to say something on this topic. Especially since the main guy ALWAYS preaches about living forever.

I think it’s one thing to say that you want to live healthy and as long as you can, especially when you wanna be there for your family and their achievements and whatnot. All that’s great and all, but at the same time why are we also told about the inevitable truth of how nothing lasts forever?

In other words, if someone wants to live long and healthy then more power to them I guess. But what about you (and I’m asking myself this)?? Do YOU want to live forever? Especially with all of the pains and unfairness that you go through of growing and living? Essentially when that means that you’re basically doing (what will feel like) the same thing almost every day but longer until you get too old to do the things that you wish you could do when you’re still young and functional? That doesn’t sound like something that’s worth living long in my opinion.

Now I’m not trying to judge here, I’m more so asking a question. Because while sure I don’t mind living long enough to pass at a respectable old age, I think that it’s better to live a good life other than a long one. Especially when that means that a lot of people who you care about will pass before you do, while this will be different for everyone… I don’t think not everyone is going to handle it.


It might shock some of y'all to know, but I'm death positive. If you wanna know more about it you can check out this page from The Order of the Good Death:

orderofthegooddeath.com/death-positive-movement/

With that said most people who want to live forever fear death. And I get it. Western culture is removed from death. End of life care is very cold, and how we treat the elderly and infirm is appalling. It's no wonder that most people want nothing to do with it.

This is why so many people live bland lives with bland food. To them, a dull, safe, soulless life is better than death. It gives the illusion of control.

We all want a good life, but it shouldn't be lived in fear of death. For death comes for us all.
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Longevity

Munchies:
With that said most people who want to live forever fear death. And I get it. Western culture is removed from death. End of life care is very cold, and how we treat the elderly and infirm is appalling. It's no wonder that most people want nothing to do with it.

This is why so many people live bland lives with bland food. To them, a dull, safe, soulless life is better than death. It gives the illusion of control.

We all want a good life, but it shouldn't be lived in fear of death. For death comes for us all.


Interesting take. I guess based on what you said I could also be a little bit Death Positive myself because of my awareness that death is something that happens to other people at some point. Nor does it really affect me as deeply as others. Even with my own crazy thoughts about being enthused about Motorsports and being a racing driver might have that sort of encouragement, if that’s saying something??

Anyways it’s like what I have said, I do wanna pass at a respectable age to go. But at the same time if life sucks so much, why live long for it to keep sucking? However maybe that’s what makes it even more special to make the most of it before one’s life runs its course.
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Longevity

It’s weird how our modern culture is really weird around death but in the past it was more understood and accepted as an aspect of life - In pretty much all culture it’s only moderns that are goofy about it going on about how their going to live forever
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