4 weeks
I want to ask the feedee
Viktoshka:
I want to ask the feedee. When you reached your weight goal, did you leave the feeder yourself? Or did he leave you himself, only because you got fat and you became uninteresting to him? It would be very interesting to know your experience.
Munchies:
My question is, why are you expecting feedees and feeders to part ways?
Yeah, it happens, but it's far more common for the two to stay in contact. A feeder can help the feedee maintain. Considering this scenario involves a long-term feedist relationship, they are usually friends or significant others. So, it makes no sense for the two parties to split.
I want to ask the feedee. When you reached your weight goal, did you leave the feeder yourself? Or did he leave you himself, only because you got fat and you became uninteresting to him? It would be very interesting to know your experience.
Munchies:
My question is, why are you expecting feedees and feeders to part ways?
Yeah, it happens, but it's far more common for the two to stay in contact. A feeder can help the feedee maintain. Considering this scenario involves a long-term feedist relationship, they are usually friends or significant others. So, it makes no sense for the two parties to split.
I asked specifically for feedee. Are you feedee?
I didn't say that feedees and feeders necessarily break up. My question was addressed specifically to feedees, because I'm interested in their opinion and experience. But since you answered, tell me how you see the supportive role of the feeder in a long-term relationship?
3 weeks
I want to ask the feedee
Viktoshka:
I want to ask the feedee. When you reached your weight goal, did you leave the feeder yourself? Or did he leave you himself, only because you got fat and you became uninteresting to him? It would be very interesting to know your experience.
Munchies:
My question is, why are you expecting feedees and feeders to part ways?
Yeah, it happens, but it's far more common for the two to stay in contact. A feeder can help the feedee maintain. Considering this scenario involves a long-term feedist relationship, they are usually friends or significant others. So, it makes no sense for the two parties to split.
Viktoshka:
I asked specifically for feedee. Are you feedee?
I didn't say that feedees and feeders necessarily break up. My question was addressed specifically to feedees, because I'm interested in their opinion and experience. But since you answered, tell me how you see the supportive role of the feeder in a long-term relationship?
I want to ask the feedee. When you reached your weight goal, did you leave the feeder yourself? Or did he leave you himself, only because you got fat and you became uninteresting to him? It would be very interesting to know your experience.
Munchies:
My question is, why are you expecting feedees and feeders to part ways?
Yeah, it happens, but it's far more common for the two to stay in contact. A feeder can help the feedee maintain. Considering this scenario involves a long-term feedist relationship, they are usually friends or significant others. So, it makes no sense for the two parties to split.
Viktoshka:
I asked specifically for feedee. Are you feedee?
I didn't say that feedees and feeders necessarily break up. My question was addressed specifically to feedees, because I'm interested in their opinion and experience. But since you answered, tell me how you see the supportive role of the feeder in a long-term relationship?
I'm an FA and feeder. My partner is my feedee. Got him up to 500 lbs as of 2023. That was his limit, and he lost weight for health and comfort reasons. Currently sitting at 430 last I checked.
Only a piece of shit leaves their partner because they are no longer gaining. And on top of that, gaining and maintaining doesn't mean you have to give up being a feedist. You just have to change your approach.
My partner and I do a lot of roleplay and fantasy about how big I'd make him and how. I also stuff him from time to time. You won't gain weight from the occasional.
I also do a lot of FA stuff, but that's outside of your feeder question.
Regardless, most feedist relationships are not transactional. People don't leave the relationship just because the journey ended. And when I say relationship, I do not mean only romantic. I've seen platonic and sexual feedists relationships too.
3 weeks
I want to ask the feedee
Viktoshka:
I want to ask the feedee. When you reached your weight goal, did you leave the feeder yourself? Or did he leave you himself, only because you got fat and you became uninteresting to him? It would be very interesting to know your experience.
Munchies:
My question is, why are you expecting feedees and feeders to part ways?
Yeah, it happens, but it's far more common for the two to stay in contact. A feeder can help the feedee maintain. Considering this scenario involves a long-term feedist relationship, they are usually friends or significant others. So, it makes no sense for the two parties to split.
Viktoshka:
I asked specifically for feedee. Are you feedee?
I didn't say that feedees and feeders necessarily break up. My question was addressed specifically to feedees, because I'm interested in their opinion and experience. But since you answered, tell me how you see the supportive role of the feeder in a long-term relationship?
Munchies:
I'm an FA and feeder. My partner is my feedee. Got him up to 500 lbs as of 2023. That was his limit, and he lost weight for health and comfort reasons. Currently sitting at 430 last I checked.
Only a piece of shit leaves their partner because they are no longer gaining. And on top of that, gaining and maintaining doesn't mean you have to give up being a feedist. You just have to change your approach.
My partner and I do a lot of roleplay and fantasy about how big I'd make him and how. I also stuff him from time to time. You won't gain weight from the occasional.
I also do a lot of FA stuff, but that's outside of your feeder question.
Regardless, most feedist relationships are not transactional. People don't leave the relationship just because the journey ended. And when I say relationship, I do not mean only romantic. I've seen platonic and sexual feedists relationships too.
I want to ask the feedee. When you reached your weight goal, did you leave the feeder yourself? Or did he leave you himself, only because you got fat and you became uninteresting to him? It would be very interesting to know your experience.
Munchies:
My question is, why are you expecting feedees and feeders to part ways?
Yeah, it happens, but it's far more common for the two to stay in contact. A feeder can help the feedee maintain. Considering this scenario involves a long-term feedist relationship, they are usually friends or significant others. So, it makes no sense for the two parties to split.
Viktoshka:
I asked specifically for feedee. Are you feedee?
I didn't say that feedees and feeders necessarily break up. My question was addressed specifically to feedees, because I'm interested in their opinion and experience. But since you answered, tell me how you see the supportive role of the feeder in a long-term relationship?
Munchies:
I'm an FA and feeder. My partner is my feedee. Got him up to 500 lbs as of 2023. That was his limit, and he lost weight for health and comfort reasons. Currently sitting at 430 last I checked.
Only a piece of shit leaves their partner because they are no longer gaining. And on top of that, gaining and maintaining doesn't mean you have to give up being a feedist. You just have to change your approach.
My partner and I do a lot of roleplay and fantasy about how big I'd make him and how. I also stuff him from time to time. You won't gain weight from the occasional.
I also do a lot of FA stuff, but that's outside of your feeder question.
Regardless, most feedist relationships are not transactional. People don't leave the relationship just because the journey ended. And when I say relationship, I do not mean only romantic. I've seen platonic and sexual feedists relationships too.
Thank you for such a detailed answer! It would be interesting to hear how you adapted after it reached its limit. You say that the approach simply changes - can you give an example of how exactly? What does such interaction give when there is no active recruitment?
3 weeks
I want to ask the feedee
Viktoshka:
I asked specifically for feedee. Are you feedee?
I didn't say that feedees and feeders necessarily break up. My question was addressed specifically to feedees, because I'm interested in their opinion and experience. But since you answered, tell me how you see the supportive role of the feeder in a long-term relationship?
Munchies:
I'm an FA and feeder. My partner is my feedee. Got him up to 500 lbs as of 2023. That was his limit, and he lost weight for health and comfort reasons. Currently sitting at 430 last I checked.
Only a piece of shit leaves their partner because they are no longer gaining. And on top of that, gaining and maintaining doesn't mean you have to give up being a feedist. You just have to change your approach.
My partner and I do a lot of roleplay and fantasy about how big I'd make him and how. I also stuff him from time to time. You won't gain weight from the occasional.
I also do a lot of FA stuff, but that's outside of your feeder question.
Regardless, most feedist relationships are not transactional. People don't leave the relationship just because the journey ended. And when I say relationship, I do not mean only romantic. I've seen platonic and sexual feedists relationships too.
Viktoshka:
Thank you for such a detailed answer! It would be interesting to hear how you adapted after it reached its limit. You say that the approach simply changes - can you give an example of how exactly? What does such interaction give when there is no active recruitment?
I asked specifically for feedee. Are you feedee?
I didn't say that feedees and feeders necessarily break up. My question was addressed specifically to feedees, because I'm interested in their opinion and experience. But since you answered, tell me how you see the supportive role of the feeder in a long-term relationship?
Munchies:
I'm an FA and feeder. My partner is my feedee. Got him up to 500 lbs as of 2023. That was his limit, and he lost weight for health and comfort reasons. Currently sitting at 430 last I checked.
Only a piece of shit leaves their partner because they are no longer gaining. And on top of that, gaining and maintaining doesn't mean you have to give up being a feedist. You just have to change your approach.
My partner and I do a lot of roleplay and fantasy about how big I'd make him and how. I also stuff him from time to time. You won't gain weight from the occasional.
I also do a lot of FA stuff, but that's outside of your feeder question.
Regardless, most feedist relationships are not transactional. People don't leave the relationship just because the journey ended. And when I say relationship, I do not mean only romantic. I've seen platonic and sexual feedists relationships too.
Viktoshka:
Thank you for such a detailed answer! It would be interesting to hear how you adapted after it reached its limit. You say that the approach simply changes - can you give an example of how exactly? What does such interaction give when there is no active recruitment?
We switched from making the body of our desires to enjoying it. It's hard to appreciate such things properly when your main focus is growth. And it's nice to go from a manic intensity to something more sedate and cozy.
3 weeks
