Its very tough world out there and online. I guess I was one of the lucky ones to have met my wife thru the old fashioned way of in person at church before the pandemic. We were always chubby, and then we got into feederism and nudism and had a common thing once pandemic went away. I have had a lot of friends online mostly guys that have told me sad stories how even in their 20s how women their own age either are just interested in women, or find dating someone too much work and even a couple guys who no fault of their own just will not approach women at all because of the pain and sting of constant rejection the women and girls are doing to them. I had women friends from my wife's side felt the same way about men that had everything that rejected them. I think the problem with online social sites and online dating and apps is the convenience of not putting the work in and sadly I think also because of the politics too and political divisions and cultural way of thinking, vs the 1990s when people were still doing things the old fashioned way and had to go out to meet people, with technology, social media and apps, its a perfect storm and our downfall in why society is soo upside down, why so many people are chosing not to get married, have kids, and grow old together. Also with the price of everything going up, that creates added stress and perfect storm and consequences to why so many men and women in my age group are opting to not participate in dating and why the ones I talk to feel dating and romance are dead in this country and are chosing not to look and given up. I feel in time though something will break the ice and hopefully trends will go the other way. Till then I tell those who are lonely cant find anybody, to not give up and just keep trying different ways till you can find something that works. Also good social skills and conversation skills with text skills have to be good. Stay positive and be happy.
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