Johutt:
I’ve been getting back to gaining and I’ve gotten some pretty nice regains getting closer to my biggest of right over 200lbs. Eating a lot snacking a lot and an addition of one pint of heavy cream each day for like a month has helped a lot.
I love seeing the changes on my body and my appetite, and how my clothes won’t fit as good as they used to and I want it to go faster! But I also want to enjoy the ride more and like live in the moment of it more and just not strive towards a specific goal weight or goal size. I think that would leave me less prone to lose the excitement and encouragement also to keep going.
What have you done or learned during your gaining journey that let you enjoy the small changes and steps? To make it enjoyable all the time and not just when big changes happens?
this is a great topic.
i think because a lot of people come to websites like for the fetish aspect they hyper-fixate on the goal - get bigger, faster, now! as a younger, fit feeder, i may have been a bit like that, tbh.
my entry into gaining didn't happen until i hit 40, and it was completely by accident (and at times, a little reluctant), and it was all because i had a partner (now an ex) that helped me enjoy the ride.
she was very large, but with no connection or interest to feedism or gaining. but she *loved* food! she was a true foodie. we went out to eat (and drink) - a lot - and she knew the area much better than i did so i just kind of followed her lead. and she introduced me to a lot of different foods, and kind of taught me how to really enjoy food. flavours, textures, pairing different wine, beer and booze with particular food. it was a wonderful experience in indulgence, and it really did change me.
we were together for a few years before the pandemic, and i stopped going to the gym (mostly due to hangovers, lol) and started to pile on weight... by the time we broke up i was officially fat. i even tried to go back to the gym a few times to "get back in shape" but i was too far gone, and my ego back then couldn't take being "the fat guy" at the gym.
we broke up amicably when i had to move for work... then the pandemic hit and i got really fat, just eating out of habit and lack of anything else to do!
