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Hey everyone, I am an 18M straight feeder here. I have been into WG for a short while and now that I am going into university, I wanted to know if there is anything I should know about feederism and if I should peruse further. I just have a few general questions and any/ all advice will be greatly appreciated 🙌. I put them in order of personal importance

1. i am 18 years old, while i am interested in finding a partner my age i am not against someone older than me. is my age going to put a limit on what partners/gainers/feedees i will attract?

2. What is the best way to find a Feedee? is there a platform i can use, i plan to use subreddits later but are there any better sources?

3. What is the financial cost i should expect to take on? what type of food should i buy? is it smarter/better to buy straight fast food or to cook my meals? would using my meal plan work? (i intend to get a more costly one in order to not only feed myself.)

4. Should i expect a more "fling like" situations when it comes to finding feedees? Or would it be a continuous thing like a relationship and feederism would come later

5. How can i stay safe while looking for feedees? how can i avoid bait and catfish? is it smarter to have public meets or private meets? would online dating like tindr be a good place to look?

6. does anyone know how active the feederism are is in St Lewis? 8. would it be smart to find and find someone in the area before online and then meet later? are there ever events in the area?

7. how long are feeding "sessions" what can i expect them to look like. how can i make it most enjoyable for her?

8. how do i properly think about the health risks involved with this?

9. what is the best food to buy? is it smart to keep some on hand?

Again thank you so much for reading! any advice is good advice! I'm not looking for a relationship or DMs I just need to know this before I get started!✌️

I would say it all depends on the situation. It can be a relationship, but it can also be just a feeder-feedee dynamic where both explore themselves.
I would advise you to look for people near you first if you want to have some real life experiences. You can look on feabie, there you can filter for ppl in your area.
And I would say the most important thing on e.g. feabie if you are a feeder is to make sure the person you are talking to is actually a feedee and not just an overweight person looking for someone to accept them and their body as they are.
Those people are not actually into Feedism but might be convinced to try it because they are looking for love and maybe have not experienced being loved for their bodies before. So they might gain even though they dont want to and regret it later.
I assume you are looking for a real feedee who is equally aroused by gaining weight, doing stuffings etc. and that will also make for a way better experience bc it turns both of you on and is not one-sided. So ask ppl what they are looking for, how they got into this fetish etc
Otherwise just have fun and be careful

also, women (and feedees) aren't machines, there's no instruction manual you can download... you might have to do some actual listening and remembering the answer with each and every single girl you meet, and expect the answer to any and all of your questions to be wildly different for each one.

embrace the radical notion that (fat) women are people

every healthy relationship is based on respect and practising good consent over and over again