Voluptuouslover:
My wife recently lost weight I believe on some diet drug. She dropped around 15 pounds I would guess. Which at her height of 5’ 3” really shows up as quite a loss in my eyes.
I am really hoping she gains it back pretty quickly with this thought process on this link.
Does anyone know typical time frame the weight can creep back up eating normally again?
Hey I can understand where you’re coming from especially since I don’t always like it when there’s a bigger girl that I find attractive has to lose weight either. But at the same time it’s their body and decision, that’s something that you’ll need to accept this (it’s even true when it comes to a place of their wellbeing).
Because of the superficial reasons for enjoying all the eye candy of someone’s body weight and ONLY that, I’ve been rejected a dumped a lot in my dating life because of this.
Unless of course you could have a conversation with your wife and perhaps discuss a possible middle ground… If you truly love her than you should love her no matter her size is, because it’s gonna be subjective to change all the time in life.