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Shades:
I'm sure this will be familiar to many here and many will have similar experiences: you tell someone you like you're an FA and they don't take it well. It's happened to me quite a few times and I'm wondering if it happened again today... Sucks, doesn't it?

Delta9:
If you tell a fat woman you like her because she's fat, it usually doesn't go well. They tend to ignore the "I like you" part and focus on the "you're fat" part. Only the very special and rare people of this community can accept something like that.

Delta9:
If you tell a fat woman you like her because she's fat, it usually doesn't go well. They tend to ignore the "I like you" part and focus on the "you're fat" part. Only the very special and rare people of this community can accept something like that.

Delta9:
If you tell a fat woman you like her because she's fat, it usually doesn't go well. They tend to ignore the "I like you" part and focus on the "you're fat" part. Only the very special and rare people of this community can accept something like that.

Shades:
That's true, and it certainly does bear keeping in mind. Most of the time though, it kinda comes up in conversation, or I feel like it's time to share that preference with the lady in question, because I want to be upfront about it.
I don't think it's good for any relationship if you have to keep this part of yourself from them.

MarkSeanDavis17:
It's certainly not something you want to open with. I'm a fat person and can't say anything good has come from someone I just met telling me about my body size/weight. While it may be a fetish/kink for you, it doesn't mean the person on the receiving end has to agree with you. There are ways of putting it, and if it's become a pattern it's time to evaluate your approach and change it up. I think most people would prefer to hear reasons you're attracted to them, beyond fetishizing them. Ironic I know, given the website we're on.