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Date someone already fat or someone looking/ willing to get fat?

So I’m into big BBWs like 300ibs and going (SSBBWs by then)

And I make sure I’m clear about it in my dating profiles, because no one is on here or feabie that’s even close to where I live.

I’m getting hits surprisingly from chubby women and BBWs.

What’a your take? If you don’t love her in her chubby you don’t deserve her in her USSBBW? Or look for bigger?

Thanks
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Date someone already fat or someone looking/ willing to get fat?

Anm90p:
So I’m into big BBWs like 300ibs and going (SSBBWs by then)

And I make sure I’m clear about it in my dating profiles, because no one is on here or feabie that’s even close to where I live.

I’m getting hits surprisingly from chubby women and BBWs.

What’a your take? If you don’t love her in her chubby you don’t deserve her in her USSBBW? Or look for bigger?

Thanks


Female feeder here.

For me it comes down to vibes. I've had feeders with starting weights as low as 190 and as high as 407. There's pros and cons to both, but it mostly comes down to if we will click well as feeder and feedee.
3 days

Date someone already fat or someone looking/ willing to get fat?

Anm90p:
So I’m into big BBWs like 300ibs and going (SSBBWs by then)

And I make sure I’m clear about it in my dating profiles, because no one is on here or feabie that’s even close to where I live.

I’m getting hits surprisingly from chubby women and BBWs.

What’a your take? If you don’t love her in her chubby you don’t deserve her in her USSBBW? Or look for bigger?

Thanks

Munchies:
Female feeder here.

For me it comes down to vibes. I've had feeders with starting weights as low as 190 and as high as 407. There's pros and cons to both, but it mostly comes down to if we will click well as feeder and feedee.


Thanks for your insights!

I guess I should give it a go. Lets see.
3 days

Date someone already fat or someone looking/ willing to get fat?

Anm90p:
So I’m into big BBWs like 300ibs and going (SSBBWs by then)

And I make sure I’m clear about it in my dating profiles, because no one is on here or feabie that’s even close to where I live.

I’m getting hits surprisingly from chubby women and BBWs.

What’a your take? If you don’t love her in her chubby you don’t deserve her in her USSBBW? Or look for bigger?

Thanks

I'm a male feedee so my experience may be different but I thought I'd still share.
For me I've put this kink to the side for relationships. I've never met anyone in real life whos into feederism. I've been with several women who preferred dad bods or bigger men in general. But that was just a preference thing, they weren't into feeding at all. I have also been in relationships were my partner put on "relationship weight" and they enjoyed that. But that wasn't really feederism either.
I'd say if you're having luck scoring dates with chubby or plus size women, pursue that rather than waiting for a ssbbw. Besides you may have better luck than I have finding someone who shares this kink and maybe one of them would like to get to that weight.
3 days

Date someone already fat or someone looking/ willing to get fat?

Bobo:
When i met one of my exes, she was already 314, on purpose. But it was long distance and when I finally decided I had to visit her, she ramped up the calories in the weeks leading up to our visit and...wow! Almost 330 pounds!


Wow, must be exciting! So happy for you
3 days

Date someone already fat or someone looking/ willing to get fat?

Anm90p:
So I’m into big BBWs like 300ibs and going (SSBBWs by then)

And I make sure I’m clear about it in my dating profiles, because no one is on here or feabie that’s even close to where I live.

I’m getting hits surprisingly from chubby women and BBWs.

What’a your take? If you don’t love her in her chubby you don’t deserve her in her USSBBW? Or look for bigger?

Thanks

SumoSized:
I'm a male feedee so my experience may be different but I thought I'd still share.
For me I've put this kink to the side for relationships. I've never met anyone in real life whos into feederism. I've been with several women who preferred dad bods or bigger men in general. But that was just a preference thing, they weren't into feeding at all. I have also been in relationships were my partner put on "relationship weight" and they enjoyed that. But that wasn't really feederism either.
I'd say if you're having luck scoring dates with chubby or plus size women, pursue that rather than waiting for a ssbbw. Besides you may have better luck than I have finding someone who shares this kink and maybe one of them would like to get to that weight.


You know, you’re right. I should be more grateful for BBWs who’d go on a date with me. Maybe I should be alright putting the kink aside for relationships too.
3 days

Date someone already fat or someone looking/ willing to get fat?

Anm90p:
So I’m into big BBWs like 300ibs and going (SSBBWs by then)

And I make sure I’m clear about it in my dating profiles, because no one is on here or feabie that’s even close to where I live.

I’m getting hits surprisingly from chubby women and BBWs.

What’a your take? If you don’t love her in her chubby you don’t deserve her in her USSBBW? Or look for bigger?

Thanks

SumoSized:
I'm a male feedee so my experience may be different but I thought I'd still share.
For me I've put this kink to the side for relationships. I've never met anyone in real life whos into feederism. I've been with several women who preferred dad bods or bigger men in general. But that was just a preference thing, they weren't into feeding at all. I have also been in relationships were my partner put on "relationship weight" and they enjoyed that. But that wasn't really feederism either.
I'd say if you're having luck scoring dates with chubby or plus size women, pursue that rather than waiting for a ssbbw. Besides you may have better luck than I have finding someone who shares this kink and maybe one of them would like to get to that weight.

Bobo:
Wish to point out I've met two FFAs off both here and elsewhere. Meaning they were REALLY into fattening up men and one even said, plain, "My ideal man is 5'7 and obese."

Hope!


That would super cool actually. I met one woman on tinder that intentionally gained from 90kg (200~ ibs) to 120kg (264~ ibs). Unfortunately we didn’t get the chance to be together and I kick myself over it every day that I couldn’t feed her.
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