Juliihs2:
I've started dating recently, and over the past five months, my boyfriend has gradually gained some weight about 2.2 lbs per month. He's mentioned it with some concern, but I actually find it charming. I like making sure he always has snacks and feels comforted, especially since he's been under a lot of stress lately. After a few days apart, I noticed his belly looks a bit rounder. I just want to support him and make sure he feels loved and well-fed even if that means his clothes start to feel a little tighter.
2.2 lbs a month is about 24.4 lbs a year. Not bad. But I would have a conversation with him about it - see where he stands. Just because he's gaining and you like it doesn't mean he's happy with the situation.
