Fat experiences

I don’t know what to do. I’ve been in the space for 3 years and I can’t say I have had high expectations to even begin with but the lack of any sort of interest has me wondering if it will ever happen I just feel a bit crushed as of late by it. Don’t get me wrong I love the space and I’m enjoying my appetite and its consequence I’m not really complaining or asking for pity or anything like that. It’s just tough out here for a fat guy and being in a fat positive space isn’t much better.

Does anyone older/commited to the fetish ever feel this way?

If im reading this correctly/getting your post... You enjoy bein fat, yet there aspects you dont...
It can def be an issue when your kink life, and reality hit at the same time...

Don’t get me wrong I absolutely love being fat and this fetish, food is one of the great pleasures I have. it’s just more so more my dating life as of late just not very many prospects. I’m not sure if they correlate, but lately they feel like they are. And it’s not much better online

What have you done thus far to find love?

Been on a few dates here and there I just feel like nothing ever goes anywhere. Most never follow up. Idk if it’s because I’m big? Not meeting expectations? I don’t think I’m weird or at least not anymore than anyone else. Idk it’s not like I’m just trying to have sex, I’m just looking for a connection. I just never click with anyone online in these spaces and everyone is so spread out across the country.

Don’t get me wrong I’m doing okay in the big picture. Just an odd thing I guess.

Yes, i feel like i will never find a girlfriend. I might be in a worse place than you. There is 3 reasons for why that may be.

I have never went out on a date in the past 7 years (i dont go out much, im shy, i can't talk to people i dont know - I went to a fetlife munch recently and i was able to talk with only one woman).

Aside from that i am attracted to intelligence before anything else. In fact its necesary that i trust the intelligence of a woman, in order to want to live with her, etc. And i sense that most people (and by extention, most women - which is who im looking to date) are not intelligent. I might be very sensitive to finding problems in peoples' rationality, but i can't turn this off. It makes me extremely uncomfortable to be in the presense of someone who is using incorrect logic. I've gone through this when i was in a D&D so i have experience of it.

The third reason is this fetish. I wanna have sex too, and my sexuality necesarily involves feedism, so i wouldn't like being with a partner that is not super into this.

I am feeling as if i stand on the outpost of lonelyness.

Or at least that's what i would feel like, if it weren't for the few, wonderful people i consider true friends! :3 Im blessed to have them!

Seeing that this is a fat fetish site, I don't think your size is the issue. Now, I will say there are a LOT of flaky people on this site. It may not have anything to do at all with you. Hard to say.

I just meant normie dating in general, I haven’t met anyone on here that hasn’t been flaky, At least that’s not long distance..

Idk if this helps you at all but I don’t think the majority of people are capable of rationality I think we all have the capacity for rationality but very few are capable.

Loneliness is an emotion, that relates to desire not a state of being. I get it if you feel that way, however, going it alone is okay too.

Honestly, it is rough out here on these dating streets. No matter what you look like, no matter who you are as a person. It is rough.

Honestly, the only thing I can recommend is if you know you are the best that you can be, be patient. Remember, most people out here at worth dating in the first place.