Lifestyle tips

hey all, I'm new to this site so forgive me. but recently I've gotten into a relationship with a girl, love her more than anything. But she's told me she wants me to get a little bigger. At first I assumed she ment bulk up, work out, yadda yadda. Which is a valid assumption considering I'm 6 2 and weighed 145ish pounds, and she's a bitter shorter and curvier. but as of recent it seems like it's become more of dirty bulk of sorts. Like a few days ago she surprised me with sending me a meal from zaxbys at like 8 o'clock, and then she made me a big brunch the next day, and she is always encouraging me to eat. She says it's so I have energy and mass to build on for the gym. But idk I just can't figure it out. Any help?

Have you tried talking to her?

We've sorta talked about it, but not delving into feederism i guess. I've been having weird dreams recently where it consist of her constantly feeding me donuts, and I told her about it and she didn't seem like enthusiastic about it but also didn't seem to mind it. I've put on 12 pounds already with my bulk and we've only been dating for about a month now. Idk what to say to her, she knows I've put on a little weight obviously, and that I'm going to the gym as well. Just unsure what her main goal is.

Have you been skirting around the topic? Or have you been candid?

To be very blunt, it isn't obvious if this is kink or not. You are a scrawny man who could stand to put on a few. Your gf might simply be eager to get fast results. Same as one might be for weight loss or muscle mass.

Talk to her about your concerns. Not everything is kinky.

You may be correct but I also asked her a few days ago jokingly, but like also not jokingly, if she was gonna feed me in order to "bulk" me up, and she said that she would love to.

Okay, but your profile says you are in South Carolina. Women in the South believe in putting meat on our men's bones. It's a way of life.

Ask her.

So last night we stopped by the gas station and made me buy like 3 bags of candy, 1 for her, 1 for me, and 1 to share. We get back to her place and she opens up my bag for me and tells me to have them and then once I slowed down she grabbed some and handed them to me. We opened up her bag and she ate like 3 and put them away. And then like an hour later she essentially makes me finish the bag to share. Is that an indicator?

Stop being chicken shit and have an actual conversion with her.

Yea I mean it low-key sounds like you're writing a fanfiction lol, you should just talk to her about it communicating is important

Yeah, either this is a shitty attempt at creative writing or he really needs to be an adult.