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Well people come and go , eish you the best : )

Sorry about those men saying those things, some men here are very stupid and I hate them

Online life is very focused. It's not the real world. It's far more difficult to turn an online connection into a physical world connection. You would do better being open and approachable in person than trying to do so here. You can always hint about what you want and people who are in tune will receive your signal. Those that are not will simply not detect your fetish or if they do they will ignore it.

This sounds like my experience. I get a lot of guys interested in me but mostly whenever I contacted women, they either ignored me or accused me of being a "stalker" for contacting them one time. When I was successful in contacting women through chat or FF messaging, it would last a couple of messages and then they would ghost me.

I haven't had many problems with scammers relating to fat and none related to FF. When I was on Feabie, all I got were people begging for money, sometimes directly or sometimes indirectly ("Buy me some clothes and I'll model them for you".

FF and this fetish in general only works if you're a woman or a gay man. Maybe it's better to look for someone in real life rather than online, but it's not easy to find women open about either liking fat guys or liking their own fat bodies. I think a lot of the ones online wish they weren't into this and chicken out after a few interactions and maybe try to stick with finding a "normal" relationship.

Finally, someone says it. It's the sad reality of this fetish, and it's a common rule: fat women don't like fat men, or non-fat feeder women don't like fat men. This fetish is for women or gay men. The girls here are just promoting their Patreon or their OF, or they're not looking for anything serious, not even friendship. I think a real-life relationship is better. I like it here because of some of the blogs that are posted, but not for relationships.

This could not be more wrong,

There are Fat women who like fat man, there are none feeder women who like fat man,

Women do not like entitled toxic men, in general,

you have said the actual truth (hard though it is for most men here to accept it)

It's far from the truth very very very far, try treating them with respect and such, you would be surprised

As a female, just gonna leave this here:

I like big guys. Always have, always will! Females into bigger guys exist. We are rare, but we are here!

I just wish more of the lovely men I've met on here that i click well with lived closer. While id eventually like a relationship, i’d be just as grateful to get to chat and be friends with them.
It has been so refreshing, and i mean really refreshing to have met men on here that are kind/caring, compassionate, respectful/considerate, and gentle. If i was able to be in a relationship with one of those gentlemen id consider myself greatly blessed.

OP i hope you take a short break to heal. the search can be exhausting, and have negative things occur, and im sorry that those things did happen. While you dont need a partner in life to be happy, I hope you do continue your search and find someone for you! Wishing you the best of luck!

(Please excuse the grammer. Its late as i type this)

Anyone who claims they can't find someone, refer back to this user. A beautifully written response.

Maybe on these spaces it's "difficult," but I see more thinner women with bigger guys out and about than thinner men with bigger women. It's more common than you think.