Dating/Friendships

It's probably a hopeless situation tbh. Women, no matter what size they are, just aren't that into fat guys (generally speaking). Have you tried losing weight? I know that goes against the theme of this website, but it may be your best bet to make yourself more attractive to women.

women (generally speaking) are not a monolith and have very varied tastes, including some, quite a lot of us, who like fat men.

you know what women are *not* into? being treated like a commodity, interchangeable, something you're somehow entitled to.

hearing men/boys/manchildren complain about wanting *a* girlfriend, *any* girlfriend, your features other than your girlfriend-ability and provider of sexy times don't matter... THAT is a huge turn-off

try the radical idea of treating women as people, people who don't owe you anything and who especially don't owe you sex just because you're nice to them... and who knows, one of them might click with you based on her *personality* shocking i know

It's a shame that men can't express emotional pain from experiencing loneliness, lack of human touch, feeling unworthy of love, etc. without being met with insulting hostility from strident anti-male activists.

personally as a girl im like extremely into fat guys and go almost exclusively for them. and like no i dont mean a bit chubby, like full on obese like 280-350+ pounds is my ideal range of weight for men but literally everytime they end up ending stuff w me. and like im like naturally thin and considered to be conventionally attractive like ive had famous tiktokers and models hit me up in my dms. but like for some reason fat guys always want nothing to do with me, like idk if its smth like theyre trying to lose weight or smth idk or if i come off too strongly about being into them for being fat idk. like i genuinely get played more by fat guys than conventionally attractive ones.

Personally, I think a thin girl who's comfortable with her weight and doesn't want to gain weight makes me think she doesn't like obesity, because she doesn't want to share it. You love the contrast, but not the fatness itself.