I'm starting to realize that I was incredibly lucky to be a feedist IRL first, and only come to the online community for it later.
So here's my advice for living out this lifestyle, cobbled together from what I did accidentally IRL that worked. Be about 50 to 100 pounds chubbier than average - enough to attract women that like big guys, but not so big that you have difficulty living a normal life. Most women (not all, but most) that like big guys are bound to be somewhat chubby themselves, because in lieu of anyone else to fatten up, they'll do it to themselves.
Then, once you find one, talk over your desires and figure out which of you wants to be the bigger one.
Congratulations, you are now an IRL feedist. You don't have to buy groceries for strangers. You don't have to hear weird people talking about putting things in your belly button in your DMs. You don't have to be so suffocatingly alone.
Most people who are into feedism don't even know the word exists. This isn't as impossible as you think it is. I was approached multiple times in multiple ways by women who were trying to talk about the subject, around the subject, without even knowing the word. Just take your game IRL and see what happens.
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