Gaining

Wasn't sure whether to put this in 'fattening others' or 'gaining' as I haven't gained anything yet and usually I'd be fattening others.

Have any other feeders experienced a desire to try gaining weight themselves? Recently I've been thinking about it as much as I think about fattening someone else. I never used to feel this way, only in the last year or so I've been thinking more about how it feels on the other side and I've been jealous of people doing it.

I think this is fairly common. I started off finding potbellies on women cute, and now I've put on around 80lbs and active want to gain several hundreds more.

What made you decide to go for it? Does it feel like you expected?

I was very conflicted for a long time, because a lot of my hobbies were quite active and that was and is a big part of my friend group. Honestly, it just got to the point where I couldn't ignore the impulse anymore.

But there've been no downsides so far. It's just very novel: being rounder and softer; discovering that formerly easy activities make you out of breathe; becoming more clumsy as your centre of gravity shifts.

I don't now if I can say it's what I expected, because I'm not sure what I expected. I certainly don't regret it, even though I'm hitting the stage where I think losing weight would require a sustained and deliberate effort that I'm not sure I'm capable of anymore.

Yes, this seems to be quite common.

I happened to have a lack of weight gain on my wife for many years. I started cooking for us and was making some really heavy laden meals. She was never shy of eating deserts and snacks and I started buying plenty of her favorites while I was shopping for our meals. I noticed her after several months she had really started gaining weight again. We would finish out huge heavily carb laden fattening meals and we would retire to the couch to watch some Netflix. She would bring me over a huge bowl of ice cream and plop down with a Ben n Jerry’s pint herself. This went on for another month or so and I loved how much she was gaining. What I didn’t realize is ll of a sudden she came back from the grocery store with a ton of ice cream, cookies and chocolates and did to me “I got your favorite flavor of ice cream and your Oreos”. All of a sudden I realized that I had. Sweet tooth just like her when I never have in the past. It was then that I realized I had a pretty good size gut sticking out in front of me nowadays. I became very aroused and decided to intentionally stiff myself and get as huge as I could, mostly to have my wife tease, scold or even reprimand me for packing on such a huge gut.