Lifestyle tips

General hangouts and nightlife

May be more relevant to a different topic but I'll still ask. (Noob here)

For the bigger gals and guys, what the best nightlife activities that works for you? For bars and clubs, is there anything you look to avoid or are drawn too?
During these moments, are you generally disinterested in getting hit on?
Or is chatting and meeting others more interesting?
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