Lifestyle tips

May be more relevant to a different topic but I'll still ask. (Noob here)

For the bigger gals and guys, what the best nightlife activities that works for you? For bars and clubs, is there anything you look to avoid or are drawn too?
During these moments, are you generally disinterested in getting hit on?
Or is chatting and meeting others more interesting?

Most seem to avoid nightclubs from my experience

Depends on the location. Wife and I were accepted most places we went while we dated. Course, we live in a state full of chubby and fat people. So it was easier.

Oooh okay

- Clubs: I personally do like going to nightclubs, however before I go I check if they have some seating avaliable for sitting breaks bc your girl cannot be expected to dance all night without breaks, and personally I don't like being hit on, but I think that's more because I'm taken, clubs are loud, and im there to dance with my friends.

- Bars: Seating is huge, ideally not bar height, no booths and armless chairs are all musts, and because im probably there to sit, I want snacks and food, not just booze

- Idk if this counts as nightlife, but I love arcades, VR, or pinball Bars, often has food, soda, things to do, and places to sit

- Escape rooms are fun as long as I don't have to crawl or fit through a tight space

- Movie theatres/arenas/concerts are only good if they are the wide recliner seats, ive gotten bruises from seats where I was wedged for hours

I think that's all I can think of for night life personally...

You make a really good point about how much accessibility shapes whether nightlife feels enjoyable or exhausting. I hadn’t thought about things like seat height, booths, or tight escape room spaces before, but they clearly make a huge difference — kind of like in fnf where Boyfriend has to adapt and keep up with every challenge to win Girlfriend’s love, except real nightlife should be designed so people don’t have to “battle” just to participate comfortably.

I do spend a lot of time thinking about seating and food and spaces before going out, honestly it would be so much easier if the world was built for everyone!

Another one I thought of is bar crawls - I don't usually do bar crawls anymore because of all the walking, but I have done one where I was driven from bar to bar by a friend, and we met up with the walkers which was good 😊