Hi everyone! 👋 I’m Estil (it's a vintage Kentucky name pronounced 'S-tul', rhymes with vessel) and this is my best friend Wynonna the kitty cat! 🐈 I named her in honor of my grand-niece Naomi. I’m a 46-year-old widower right here in Owensboro, and I’m AuDHD/ARFID. I’m also a very, VERY loyal alum—Daviess County High Class of '99 (Go Panthers! ❤️) and UK Class of '03 (Go Cats! 💙).
And to paraphrase Gretchen Wilson, I ain't never nor ever wanted to be the macho gym bro type! And you can have your grunting and barbells...I'd rather cuddle with my kitty all night!
I identify as asexual, but I am a big-time romantic. I live for the wholesome stuff: hugs, cuddles, holding hands, and sweet terms of endearment ("love" is my favorite). I’m a total "Joey Gladstone" type—laid back and childlike at heart—but I can and will and HAVE stepped up to be the "grown-up" when it truly counts. I keep things clean and healthy (no smoking or alcohol or illegal drugs). And while my ARFID means I stick to my junk/ "safe" foods, hey—everyone’s gotta have at least one "vice"!🍗 🍕 🍔 🍟
I like collecting baseball cards, coins, stamps, vintage video games (I got all Nintendo systems, first four Playstations, Genesis/Master System/Sega CD, first two Xboxes, DS/3DS; I only do solo gaming though), reference and other books, and a proud cat parent! I also very much enjoy board and card games...or at least I would if I had a special someone to play them with. :,( I am BIG time nostalgic for most all things 80s/early 90s (my childhood years) so the more of those kind of things you're into the better 🙂
I’ve always adored girls with different kinds of extreme maximalist looks!. Since I’m so nostalgic for the 80s and 90s of my childhood (and 70s and earlier), I’ve always adored Rapunzel hair and even better really huge tall hairdos like giant beehives or "mall bangs" 💇♀️✨ I adore extremely long nails as I think they are so beautiful, elegant, graceful, and feminine. 💅 And I love girls in really puffy down coats/vests as well as the bold neon high zip collar jackets and shiny snap buttoned jackets from my childhood era! 🧥❄️ As for fat related interests, I know it's nothing usual to like really big girls but what I ADORE is when they stuff pillows and such to look even bigger!
At the ADHD+Autism dating group on FB they did a whole copy/paste of this so here goes:
(you can find out more about me in my profile)
Age: soon to be 46 (DOB: 3/22/80); not surprisingly I adore all things 80s
• Height: 5'9
• Size/Shape: 180 lbs (have a bit of a belly)
• Sexuality: Asexual but I ADORE hugs/cuddles/terms of endearment
• Children: Not the human kind but my late wife Denise (1956-2021) made me a VERY proud cat parent in 2010!
• Hair: Short (but on girls the longer and/or bigger the better! Same goes with nails)
• Place of residence: Owensboro, Kentucky, USA
• Smoker: No!
• Adult beverages: No; Kroger coffee and Kroger sweet tea are my go-to beverages
• Pets: My best friend Wynonna the kitty cat!
• Piercings: None but I adore girls with tons of piercings and/or really huge stretched ear lobes/plugs
• Tattoos: None
• Music: Most anything from 50s-early 90s (but 70s/80s is my sweet spot; that's true for baseball card sets too), and that goes for pop/rock/country alike. ABBA is by far my favorite group/band
• Kissing on the first date: If she kisses me first, heck yeah!!
• Cooking: If you count microwave, George Foreman grill, and oven; I never had anyone cook for me
• Heart person, or ice block: I very VERY much wear my heart on my sleeve❤️
• Summer, or Winter: Winter! Because of my love for Christmas (or at least I would if I find anyone to celebrate it properly again) and because I ADORE girls in big puffy down coats/vests and/or colorful 80s jackets such as the ones with the big zip up collar or those shiny satin snap button ones (I love all things 80s)!
• Spontaneous, or Planned: Both
• Open to PM: Yes!
• Open to a friendship: Yes!
• Open to relationship: Yes!
• Open to friend requests: Yes!
PS: The more a girl is super mega ultra obsessed with the 80s, the better
And to paraphrase Gretchen Wilson, I ain't never nor ever wanted to be the macho gym bro type! And you can have your grunting and barbells...I'd rather cuddle with my kitty all night!
I identify as asexual, but I am a big-time romantic. I live for the wholesome stuff: hugs, cuddles, holding hands, and sweet terms of endearment ("love" is my favorite). I’m a total "Joey Gladstone" type—laid back and childlike at heart—but I can and will and HAVE stepped up to be the "grown-up" when it truly counts. I keep things clean and healthy (no smoking or alcohol or illegal drugs). And while my ARFID means I stick to my junk/ "safe" foods, hey—everyone’s gotta have at least one "vice"!🍗 🍕 🍔 🍟
I like collecting baseball cards, coins, stamps, vintage video games (I got all Nintendo systems, first four Playstations, Genesis/Master System/Sega CD, first two Xboxes, DS/3DS; I only do solo gaming though), reference and other books, and a proud cat parent! I also very much enjoy board and card games...or at least I would if I had a special someone to play them with. :,( I am BIG time nostalgic for most all things 80s/early 90s (my childhood years) so the more of those kind of things you're into the better 🙂
I’ve always adored girls with different kinds of extreme maximalist looks!. Since I’m so nostalgic for the 80s and 90s of my childhood (and 70s and earlier), I’ve always adored Rapunzel hair and even better really huge tall hairdos like giant beehives or "mall bangs" 💇♀️✨ I adore extremely long nails as I think they are so beautiful, elegant, graceful, and feminine. 💅 And I love girls in really puffy down coats/vests as well as the bold neon high zip collar jackets and shiny snap buttoned jackets from my childhood era! 🧥❄️ As for fat related interests, I know it's nothing usual to like really big girls but what I ADORE is when they stuff pillows and such to look even bigger!
At the ADHD+Autism dating group on FB they did a whole copy/paste of this so here goes:
(you can find out more about me in my profile)
Age: soon to be 46 (DOB: 3/22/80); not surprisingly I adore all things 80s
• Height: 5'9
• Size/Shape: 180 lbs (have a bit of a belly)
• Sexuality: Asexual but I ADORE hugs/cuddles/terms of endearment
• Children: Not the human kind but my late wife Denise (1956-2021) made me a VERY proud cat parent in 2010!
• Hair: Short (but on girls the longer and/or bigger the better! Same goes with nails)
• Place of residence: Owensboro, Kentucky, USA
• Smoker: No!
• Adult beverages: No; Kroger coffee and Kroger sweet tea are my go-to beverages
• Pets: My best friend Wynonna the kitty cat!
• Piercings: None but I adore girls with tons of piercings and/or really huge stretched ear lobes/plugs
• Tattoos: None
• Music: Most anything from 50s-early 90s (but 70s/80s is my sweet spot; that's true for baseball card sets too), and that goes for pop/rock/country alike. ABBA is by far my favorite group/band
• Kissing on the first date: If she kisses me first, heck yeah!!
• Cooking: If you count microwave, George Foreman grill, and oven; I never had anyone cook for me
• Heart person, or ice block: I very VERY much wear my heart on my sleeve❤️
• Summer, or Winter: Winter! Because of my love for Christmas (or at least I would if I find anyone to celebrate it properly again) and because I ADORE girls in big puffy down coats/vests and/or colorful 80s jackets such as the ones with the big zip up collar or those shiny satin snap button ones (I love all things 80s)!
• Spontaneous, or Planned: Both
• Open to PM: Yes!
• Open to a friendship: Yes!
• Open to relationship: Yes!
• Open to friend requests: Yes!
PS: The more a girl is super mega ultra obsessed with the 80s, the better
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