From a gainer's perspective? I would never, ever talk like that unless I was trying to suss out if my bf would be psyched by my gaining, or at least ok with it. For me, this point generally comes after dating a while and thinking that it might be true from the way the guy handles my rounder, softer parts, how he behaves with me around food, and so on.
In the long run, Stefany's advice is right. You can't come out and tell her you're a feeder (presuming you are). But you can, and imho should, tell her you prefer rounder, curvier women, and that you find it delightful that she enjoys her food.
15 years
