Gaining

I was just wondering if anyone here has divorced or ended a serious relationship to pursue a gaining lifestyle. My marriage is pretty much on the rocks, and even though I am not very fat my wife hates what little weight I have gained. This pretty much makes me want to say "***" and not work very hard on saving the marriage. Then I could get as fat as I want, and maybe get with someone who likes me fat. There are no kids involved, by the way. Just wondering if anyone has had this experience.

Thank you all for your responses. Ending my marriage is not really just about the gaining lifestyle. I could pass that up if things were otherwise good, and in fact that's what I've been doing for years. Unfortunately, there are a lot of other things wrong in this marriage.
I guess part of me feels like its demise, as painful and awful as would be, would offer an opportunity to do this thing that I've always wanted to do.